prayformydownfall Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 after the ex broke nc with an aol instant msg asking how i was and me telling her i was busy and dint have time to chat to her, this is my quote of the day that describes me!! unbreakable adj. Impossible to break; able to withstand rough usage: unbreakable plates. Able to withstand an attempt to break. Used of a horse. n. An article or object that is not easily broken. im not gonna let anyone that doesnt deserve my time mess with me anymore!!! i'm not afraid of storms, they just teach me how to sail my ship!!! PFMD!! Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 Way to go... you should block her from IM as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 12, 2005 Author Share Posted March 12, 2005 i think it annoys her i dont care about her at all... but she hurt me so deeply i really dont want her ever to have any influence on my life now im free from her theres no way i'm lettin her back in!! im not the one making contact with her!!!! happy days ahead!!! PFMD!!! Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted March 12, 2005 Share Posted March 12, 2005 Hope she drinks enough milk to offset the bitter pill she has to swallow. Guess what... I think she has to respect you now. Poor thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 12, 2005 Author Share Posted March 12, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer Guess what... I think she has to respect you now the only thing i ever wanted was to regain my dignity and for her to see what a strong person i am now i've got that, i really have moved on, and i hope all the people readin this hurtin at the moment, i've been there and yes ive had the up and down days, the uncontrollable and stupid urges to ring, iv done the crying, iv done the nites wide awake and theres a life on the otherside as long as u stay strong. it doesnt hurt to let it bite u, reminds u that ur human and next time u find somethin better, ull appreciate it more, its not like im short of offers at the mo, but i'm takin my time and lettin ppl know im not here to b walked on! PFMD!!! Link to post Share on other sites
snoop_dawg22 Posted March 14, 2005 Share Posted March 14, 2005 I love it!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 14, 2005 Author Share Posted March 14, 2005 Originally posted by snoop_dawg22 I love it!! iv read some of ur posts snoop dawg and keep strong and ull get there, it really does take time no matter how cheesy that sounds!!! someone told me that apprently she went home from university 'to take a few days out' yday in a foul mood!! guess who holds the cards i cant stop smiling all day, i am holding my head up and i cant wait to meet the next big thing in my life!! Link to post Share on other sites
snoop_dawg22 Posted March 14, 2005 Share Posted March 14, 2005 I know you are basking in your glory right now. I am actually feeling a little like you. I've come to grips with my situation and I know that God has something better for me. I get excited thinking and I know that it will come. I know time heals and I'm taking it day by day. It's hard and then sometimes it's not. I love your posts and I know you are doing fine/better w/o her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 14, 2005 Author Share Posted March 14, 2005 yeh lifes gona b fine 4 both of us! dont lose the positive attitude!! Link to post Share on other sites
beejsea2 Posted March 14, 2005 Share Posted March 14, 2005 Great news!! Hope each and every day gets better for you!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 16, 2005 Author Share Posted March 16, 2005 thanks you beejsea, life does get better everyday, i have alot of work on rigth now so i am tryin to focus on that and not worryin bout finding someone new. Link to post Share on other sites
snoop_dawg22 Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 I think we are in the same boat then. I'm focusing on me and not worrying about finding someone new. But the moment you least expect it he/she will show up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 16, 2005 Author Share Posted March 16, 2005 saw her walking in town today ( on her own - odd cus shes on her own, or wit her lad but they never hold hands or show affection in public - like she used to do love doing with me ) she walked onto another path and looked at me a few times, i saw her as i glanced up for 2 seconds, spotted she was looking at me and jus carried on chattin to my mates, all 4 of them female! didnt bother lookin back, shes not worth it shes been on msn all mornin but i think as it was suggested its time to block and delete her, its for the best!! slowly over time i have reduced her contact and now she can only bump into me and chat to me or ring my parents as I now have a new mobile/house number too. as soon as my work is all done i will have a ball and im off on a lads/girls holiday with a big group of my mates!!! can't wait!!! i always thought i was too old for it and would never do it again but i think its time!! then i'm off in august round the world she can pray for my downfall......... cus i'll never slip up ever again PFMD!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
greenhorn Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 PFMD, I am happy for you and you are exuding positive vibes. cheers, Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 16, 2005 Author Share Posted March 16, 2005 snoopdawg - always the best thing to do, even wen u think ur weak inside dont ever let anyone see it, focus on urself, make ur life great without them, ud be surprised how easy it is wen u set ur mind on it!! greenhorn - thanks for your nice note, i have always found positivity is the best way to act when faced with adversity Link to post Share on other sites
snoop_dawg22 Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 That's great. You showed her that you are strong and that you are over her. Go ahead and block/delete her from msn. This I guess helped you grow and showed you that you will not fall like that again. That's just great!! Link to post Share on other sites
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