need some help

[Ronnie]

I met this girl a while back. We went out a few times and had a great time. She really liked me alot and was wanting a relationship with me. I wasn't ready yet, i was confused and didn't know what i wanted. I stopped calling her all that much and we kinda stopped talking for a while, we only talked when we was online. I knew she really liked me but i was just so confused and i told her that.

 

I went out with several different girls for a while, but just within the last 3 or 4 weeks, the only girl i have been able to think about is her. I can't seem to take my mind off of her. All i have been thinking about is her and everyday i seem to like her more and more. Well last week i finally broke down and called her.

 

Come to find out, she is pregnent now. She said she had more of less a one nite stand with a guy. She said he ia an a**h*** and that he dumped her right after they had sex and he now doesn't want anything to do with her or the baby. That kinda hurt me, but i like her so much that i would still be with her. We got together the other day and we watched a movie and snuggled in front of the couch. It juss felt so different now than when i was with her before. It was a very good feeling. (we hadn't seen each other in like 2 months.) Before, she was just like any other girl to me, but now, all i can think about is how much i like her.

 

I was so very happy being with her the other nite. When i left, we hugged for a few minutes and it was followed by a few kisses. I think im falling in love with her. I love her so much, that i will do anything for her. It doesn't bother me that she is pregnant with another guys baby. I know she isn't with him anymore. I just can't hold my feelings back any longer. I want to tell her what i feel toward her, but im not that good at that sort of thing, and i don't know how. Should i tell her how i feel? Please help me!!!!

[Rick]

Of course you should tell her. It appears that she likes you just as much as you like her. A better question is "Why wouldn't you tell her?" You only live once...and you will feel worse if you didn't.