CompletlyLost Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Alright, basically here's the story. I've been going out of my way to see her once a week for this club thing just to see her, however i'm shy so i could never say anything. A little over a week ago she mentioned her friends setting her up with someone and they're going out now (this is on MSN btw), so i've been going to this thing since a little past christmas and then she told me this a week ago, the night after i sent her an email because i don't have any other contact with her than that (did i mention this is the bosses daughter?), and MSN would just result in long pauses, so email sounded perfectly because i can't take it back then. So i told her i like her and still going to this club thing, however i can't even talk to her anymore.. And she seems happy with this guy even though from what i've seen, he comes in, doesn't even say a word to her, stays for 15 minutes (talks to some friends) and leaves without a word. I thought i just liked her but it seems to be developing to more than that now that I know she's out of my reach, so i'm jealous of this guy because he's with the girl i've fallen for but i can't even say anything because i don't want her to feel sorry for me or jeopordize anything with their relationship. Nothing's changing as day's go by except i'm just getting more and more upset, i don't even know if she likes me or not, she's been inviting me places since around christmas even after she left the company, unless she was just leading me on for no reason... Help me please If you don't wanna read that top part, the just of it is. Someone beat me to her, i'm playing the nice guy and my life is getting destroyed... Another note, i've never had a girlfriend before or ever had to deal with something like this, was contemplating on whether or not i should even be asking others about it, but i'm open to any suggestions... Link to post Share on other sites
SuperFantastico Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Everyone likes what they cant have. You waited too long, and missed your chance unfortunately. I would suggest moving on from her, and next time dont let your fear stop you from trying to go out with a girl you like. I did the exact same thing you just did, many years ago. Do yourself a BIG favor, and dont try to be her friend. You dont want to be friends, you want more. But she will tell you every detail of how her boyfriend sucks, and how she wishes they would be more like you. That kinda crap. It rips you up. Move on. Talk about it with your friends, that helped me through tough times when the girl i liked first got a boyfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CompletlyLost Posted March 13, 2005 Author Share Posted March 13, 2005 I have been talking to my friends about it alot (even been asking them if it's bothering them that i'm mentioning it so much lol), but there's no way i could just forget about her and stop being friends with her. Sure i want to get further than a friendship but i'm not looking for someone i can just find one night and get together the next. Even if her current relationship works out beautifully, i'm still going to be there for her if she needs a hand. I'm 18 years old and this is the first girl that i've really ever cared about, there's no way i'm going to let her go so easily. And even though i'm going against your reply, thank you, i've found out what i need to do now Link to post Share on other sites
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