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Work friendship/attraction/confusion! weigh in


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I just wanted somebody's opinion/analysis about a work relationship. I am very fond of my manager at work, and we are friendly. I long to spend time with him outside of work, share beers and stories, hang out at each other's houses, be there to talk. We have so much in common and I enjoy every day that we get to work together. And this would remain true no matter what. I feel the same way about some of my other female coworkers.

 

That being said, I am craving friendship with him, but I can't deny a strange attraction that might lie below the surface. I think he is handsome, and the fact that he is not married (nor, to my knowledge, seeing anyone) makes the attraction all the more thrilling. Do you think I feel this way just because he is my superior? He is about 20 years older than me, so do you think it's just attraction to an older guy?

 

He means the world to me, and I wouldn't want to ruin our current relationship. I love the sexual tension that I feel, no matter how frustrating it is.

 

What do you think he thinks of our relationship? Do you think he feels similar attraction, or have any underlying thoughts? I appreciate your input!

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