joeyNoelle Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Hey guys so heres the deal. i dumped my boyfriend a month or so ago...recently i have seen him again and he says misses me and wants to be with me..wants another chance and realizes why it went wrong last time and i believe he wants to make an effort but im not sure how long that would last to be honest... He realizes though that since we are both studying have other commitments etc we both wouldn't be able to give the highest level of commitment fo now...he said as much as he misses me and wants to be with me he can't give me that commitment now..and he said he knows i couldn't give that level to him either coz im even busier than him. but he said later he could. I told him,that i think i need to just move on etc...but eventually i agreed to be friends with him and that its too soon to consider anything else...we shouldhang otu and see how it goes. I asked if that was ok with him .. he said yeh its ok.. i want more but thats ok. So my question is.... sooner or later i know he will ask for an ultimatum..will you give me another chance or not? how much time do you think is appropriate or can i expect to have to assess the situation and make my final decision of whether or not he deserves and i want a second chance? how long would a guy wait around? Link to post Share on other sites
upsetnhurt Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Hey Joeynoelle, From the sounds of it, you both are not waiting around. You both agreed that the timing is not right at this point due to your busy schedules. I would say that he will live his life as he has since your breakup and will meet different people along the way. There is always potential that one person might strike a cord in him and he will go for it. Not so sure that should be your concern though. Obviously you have to take as much time as you need to determine if he is worthy of a second chance in your mind and unfortunately when you do.....hopefully he is of the same mindset. If not, believe me that the timing was just not then and it is probably best to move on yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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