ExpatInItaly Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 So what did you say to this guy that leads you to believe you "ruined" it? Link to post Share on other sites
Snakechammah Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 It's ok, Leigh, sometimes sh*t happens. One thing at a time, focus on your career and love will naturally take its course. You'll find someone again, and hopefully the right dude this time. Everyone makes mistakes thinking they were in love at that time, and looking back think "wtf was I thinking dating that douchebag??"... it happens to me too lol. I wish you all the best in love and life! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leigh 87 Posted November 12, 2014 Author Share Posted November 12, 2014 I ruined it by... It is not something I can articulate. Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Aren't you with a new guy anyway? A Croatian guy? I thought I saw you mention sex with him in one of your other posts. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leigh 87 Posted November 12, 2014 Author Share Posted November 12, 2014 It's ok, Leigh, sometimes sh*t happens. One thing at a time, focus on your career and love will naturally take its course. You'll find someone again, and hopefully the right dude this time. Everyone makes mistakes thinking they were in love at that time, and looking back think "wtf was I thinking dating that douchebag??"... it happens to me too lol. I wish you all the best in love and life! Thanks very much your kind words really do make me feel better. I was very upset about Berlin guy once again, eluding me... But oh well onto the next! Quiet literally... Went on a date with a hot Russian American last night ( non online) , going on a day tomorrow with a hot Central American (online), and I am actually interested in a Chilean guy I met when out with a Croatian guy I had been having fun with.... So yeah don't worry I didn't let it get me down too much LOL...... I am enjoying meeting guys for dates but that is all - I am way more guarded and closed off to kissing just any guy now, I don't just act on insane chemistry like I once did.... I certainly wont be jumping into serious dating, even with a guy who I feel could be right for me, I am looking to have either no relationship for a long while, or to take it very very slowly if I AM to meet the right guy before I am ready.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Leigh 87 Posted November 12, 2014 Author Share Posted November 12, 2014 Aren't you with a new guy anyway? A Croatian guy? I thought I saw you mention sex with him in one of your other posts. We hung out for 4 days. I met him through a friend. We had sex on the last couple of days. We are just friends with benefits. Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted November 12, 2014 Share Posted November 12, 2014 Thanks very much your kind words really do make me feel better. I was very upset about Berlin guy once again, eluding me... But oh well onto the next! Quiet literally... Went on a date with a hot Russian American last night ( non online) , going on a day tomorrow with a hot Central American (online), and I am actually interested in a Chilean guy I met when out with a Croatian guy I had been having fun with.... So yeah don't worry I didn't let it get me down too much LOL...... I am enjoying meeting guys for dates but that is all - I am way more guarded and closed off to kissing just any guy now, I don't just act on insane chemistry like I once did.... I certainly wont be jumping into serious dating, even with a guy who I feel could be right for me, I am looking to have either no relationship for a long while, or to take it very very slowly if I AM to meet the right guy before I am ready.... I am in the same position. I met a cute guy I could be interested in when out with another guy (who at the time I thought I was into and it turns out it all went to hell soon after). Anyway, I found out that cute guy and me and have mutual friends and now I am debating sending him a message asking him for lunch or something. I just don't want to get rejected :/ ( that's all non-online). Online: about to have a second date with someone from E-harmony but I don't think we have enough in common for a relationship........... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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