Caligirl05 Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 I have a MM at work who has been flirting with me for almost a year. Yesterday is the first time I went out with him, along with a few friends from work. The weird part is that he was barely any company to me. He walked by himself for the most part, walked 20 feet in front of us...didn't strike up much conversation, wasn't his usual self at all..Very shy,, very reserved, felt like he was guilt strikken, probably one of the few times he's ever been at a social setting without his wife. I had a horrible time, I wanted to go home, and he was SHOCKED at that. I don't want anything romantic with him, because he is married..but he could have at least been friendly...instead he was aloof and withdrawn...I'm confused..He did call me the next day with an excuse....and hinted at the fact that he'd go out again...but what's the use, if he won't even open up, even as a friend?? Is it an all or nothing with this guy? Or was he trying to mask his feelings for me by behaving the way he did? Link to post Share on other sites
goldy Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 view it as a lucky escape, really read all the posts here and then thank your lucky stars that nothing happened between you Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted March 13, 2005 Share Posted March 13, 2005 Originally posted by Caligirl05 I have a MM at work who has been flirting with me for almost a year. Yesterday is the first time I went out with him, along with a few friends from work. The weird part is that he was barely any company to me. He walked by himself for the most part, walked 20 feet in front of us...didn't strike up much conversation, wasn't his usual self at all..Very shy,, very reserved, felt like he was guilt strikken, probably one of the few times he's ever been at a social setting without his wife. I had a horrible time, I wanted to go home, and he was SHOCKED at that. I don't want anything romantic with him, because he is married..but he could have at least been friendly...instead he was aloof and withdrawn...I'm confused..He did call me the next day with an excuse....and hinted at the fact that he'd go out again...but what's the use, if he won't even open up, even as a friend?? Is it an all or nothing with this guy? Or was he trying to mask his feelings for me by behaving the way he did? Ha ha...his "feelings" for you...... He was behaving oddly because he realized for the first time that you might actually put out for him, and he panicked. Although he enjoys the flirtation he may not really WANT do dip the wick in another woman. So when you were in a social setting together he was aloof because he didn't want to deal with you hanging all over him in front of people. If he were REALLY into you, he would have seized the opportunity to talk to you, flirt with you, express attraction to you. So no more flirting. Even if he DOES sleep with you, he won't leave his wife for you. Being "friendly" with guys that are married when you flirt with them is SUCH A BAD IDEA I CAN'T EVEN BEGIN TO TELL YOU. Link to post Share on other sites
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