how to proceed.

[geminni]

Hello everyone, so I just found myself in strange position:

There is this girl at my job, that I have a crush on, I mean really feelin’ her, A to Z.

She used to have a BF but is single now, I thought I was getting the right signals , regarding conversation SMSs u know, I was also sending her signals in her direction. I mean u have to be real stupid not to see them, u know what I mean.

So I asked her out. She said yes. Everythings cool right. Well I just found out 2day, that she has a mad crush on this other guy, who is already taken. Found out from a friend of mine, that she talked to. And since we are very good friends he told me , but said I must keep it to myself. And there was to convo about me and her or her feelings towards me between them.

I hope yall get the picture. So my dilemma is this: how should I proceed, shall I step back I see what she does next or just continue with approach as until now.

And about that date that we had planned, it was said to take place one of this days.

 

I hope my post makes some sense.

 

Thx for replies…

[j.carsey]

OK, so you dig her and she at least likes you somewhat, otherwise she would not agree to go out. And as far as she is advertising to you, she is single. This means she wants you to know that she is available. So should you continue with your approach? Definitely!!! Why would you step back and take yoursellf out of the running?

[Dreamgirl03]

I would definately go for it..keep going the way you are. Obviously she likes you somewhat otherwise she wouldnt have agreed to go out with you. So, you are obviously doing something right. If you step back now, its just giving the other guys a chance to step in..and if you really like this girl you definately want to be in the picture. So, go for it..keep it going!