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Subjective criteria in online dating profiles.


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This carries over to the "People who get ticked off at the kind of people that contact him/her."

 

"Please don't be this or that" kind of thing

 

"Please have a sense of humor." "Don't be boring." "Be handsome"

 

Basically, it's a dating profile saying what you should be, but it's all subjective, right? I mean, you won't be able to gauge this kind of thing BEFORE you meet them?

 

It's like they are demanding you BE something that would be attractive to others, but not attractive to him/her, yes?

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I've been on dates with girls that say that sort of stuff and it ends up putting me off. Like when they say dont be boring or be funny I end up worrying about meeting some expection and try too hard. Now these "must haves" in the profiles are instant red flags and I stay away.

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