talkatone Posted November 2, 2014 Share Posted November 2, 2014 ive liked this girl for ages and we did text back and for a month or two ago and arranged a catch up with her...... i didn't realize she had a bf as she didn't tell me and the catch up didn't happen. fast forward to yesterday. i saw her out and text her the next morning asking if she was ok as she was upset. we text back and forth and i said some smooth lines she must of liked it as she said "that the nicest thing anyone has told me in a looooooong time" she told me she got dumped and i got to the point and told her ill ring her later, i left a voice mail and she got back very soon and said she was busy having a shower you can ring now if your not busy. we spoke on the phone and she seemed happy i guess, she was laughing a lot. she mentioned the catch up we didn't do and said "did you know i had a bf" and i said "no i didnt sorry" then she kind of joked a bit and said well i don't anymore basically i think its pretty clear she knows i like her and thinks shes attractive. i just dont know where to go now just looking for some advice? i know i should leave it for a while as she just broke up just some advice for later date would be great! Link to post Share on other sites
Jules Dash Posted November 2, 2014 Share Posted November 2, 2014 Generally, rebound situations are full of disappointment when it comes to women and should be avoided but there can be a sweet spot and this is usually not immediately after the breakup. Too much emotions are stirring up. If you go for it, you have to strike when the iron is hot and move things physically relatively quick because these are your highest Friendzone inducing situations. In these situations, you have to be very aggressive and a lot of times, you still go away empty handed mostly by choice because things can get annoying. She will want to talk about her ex often, appear preoccupied often and may not feel comfortable with certain levels of physical intimacy. She will try many levels of emotional intimacy and this will probably throw you off if you are not careful. Go in with low expectations. Link to post Share on other sites
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