Author somedude81 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Share Posted November 17, 2014 (edited) You're the one who introduced religion into the topic If you do what you say you will, then I'm sure there will be no issues. She should know about where you stand on Christianity. And by that measure, you really shouldn't date THIS PARTICULAR girl. There are millions of girls where you live. Pick another one. No. Are you serious? Do you know how often I get to this point with girls I'm interested in? Maybe she is a sign of God throwing me a bone. He knows how much I want a girlfriend and exactly what I want her body to be like. It's like God saying, "Here you go. She is exactly what you want, and since I'm God, she is also a Christian." Maybe she's what gets me going back to church. Isn't that a good thing? Edited November 17, 2014 by somedude81 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Ugh. Once again, no words. You know, you've blamed God for everything wrong in your life. Maybe he sees this as an opportunity to make it up to you. Or maybe he's got some huge practical joke planned for you. I'm going with the latter. Ah, c'mon.... Don't be such a wet blanket...Whats wrong with a quickie boobie grab?...Thats what true friends are for, no?... TFY 2 Link to post Share on other sites
acapelo_dp Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 So you didn't want to date lunch girl initially after finding out she was a devout Christian because you aren't compatible and plus you liked another girl better. Now you are willing to give her a shot, despite not being compatiple because you are desperate for a girlfriend? In addition to the fact you most likely won't get laid or won't get to touch her "massive breasts" which you seem so fixated on. Sorry but this is just going to lead to another disappointment. Seems all you are about is boobs and sex. Creepy. Well, prepare to fail at this. It can't end up well when you are well aware going in your wants and needs don't match up with this girl. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
trippi1432 Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Maybe she is a sign of God throwing me a bone. He knows how much I want a girlfriend and exactly what I want her body to be like. It's like God saying, "Here you go. She is exactly what you want, and since I'm God, she is also a Christian." Maybe she's what gets me going back to church. Isn't that a good thing? Is it? Someone else doesn't lead you to a closer relationship with God, giving you the ideal woman doesn't either...that only happened to Adam and Eve....a nice Bible story. If you want to go back to Church, you should do that on your own. My mother tried to lure me to Church because they had a great band and played and sang music...(not a great body mind you, but enticing), but you can't be looking for someone else to lead you or make you want something that you haven't really thought of....until now. If accepting God isn't on your bucket list right now....you might should just leave that to be checked off later. SD might need to complete himself and his own personal relationship with God first don't you think? When you are ready for that, it will be just you and God, not a nice body or a girl you are interested in. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BubblyBeth Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Is it? Someone else doesn't lead you to a closer relationship with God, giving you the ideal woman doesn't either...that only happened to Adam and Eve....a nice Bible story. If you want to go back to Church, you should do that on your own. My mother tried to lure me to Church because they had a great band and played and sang music...(not a great body mind you, but enticing), but you can't be looking for someone else to lead you or make you want something that you haven't really thought of....until now. If accepting God isn't on your bucket list right now....you might should just leave that to be checked off later. SD might need to complete himself and his own personal relationship with God first don't you think? When you are ready for that, it will be just you and God, not a nice body or a girl you are interested in. Good post, thanks for saving me some keystrokes. SD, you are grasping at straws. I believe there is a girl out there somewhere for you. This church girl just ain't it. And that's OK. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Cast ye net, jedi. Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Share Posted November 17, 2014 Yup, people here will always have a problem with what I say. Guess it's time I just stop caring. Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 He knows how much I want a girlfriend and exactly what I want her body to be like. It's like God saying, "Here you go. She is exactly what you want, and since I'm God, she is also a Christian." Exactly what you want is a body shape? 6 Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Maybe she is a sign of God throwing me a bone. He knows how much I want a girlfriend and exactly what I want her body to be like. It's like God saying, "Here you go. She is exactly what you want, and since I'm God, she is also a Christian." I'm not trying to turn this into a religious debate, but this is seriously delusional. Like a lot of religious people, it sounds like you'll tell yourself anything to rationalize doing what you want or your own beliefs. "It is/isn't God's will" can be a too-convenient excuse for anything you want it to be. I'm not religious, but I doubt a God would acknowledge your affinity for large breasted girls so directly. Can you imagine God saying "SD, I bestow unto you this virginal maiden of cup size D" ? Maybe she's what gets me going back to church. Isn't that a good thing? Going to church because you want to is good, assuming it makes you feel good. Going because someone might like you if you do isn't so good. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
BubblyBeth Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Yup, people here will always have a problem with what I say. Guess it's time I just stop caring. Or, step back and ask yourself why are so many people suggesting the same kind of advice over and over? And why haven't you tried implementing them into your life? Something about you or your presentation has not been clicking with women in real life. Why not change it up? Link to post Share on other sites
anna121 Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 I'm not trying to turn this into a religious debate, but this is seriously delusional. I'm not religious, but I doubt a God would acknowledge your affinity for large breasted girls so directly. Oh c'mon. Sure he would! You know - "I am the Lord Thy God" and "Thou Shalt have no Gods Before Me. Except for boobies." Link to post Share on other sites
trippi1432 Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 (edited) Yup, people here will always have a problem with what I say. Guess it's time I just stop caring. Stop being such a defeatist..... A friend once asked me what I wanted in a man, I said I wanted a man with dark hair and green eyes, be careful what you ask for...there are forces just as powerful as God. The next 15 years of my life were hell for just wanting a physical entity...the rest of him was empty. Is there anything outside of the physical attributes that you really want? Edited November 17, 2014 by trippi1432 Link to post Share on other sites
johan Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Stop being such a defeatist..... This is bad advice in this case. A dose of defeatism might get his mind onto something else for a change. Maybe there is one other thing in the world that SD could be interested in except hot chicks. It's time for him to find that thing and put some energy into it. Any other guy would have moved on from this by now. Every other guy pretty much has had to at one time or another. It's often in letting go that progress can be made. Giving up on an obsession is the healthy form of defeatism. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Share Posted November 17, 2014 Stop being such a defeatist..... A friend once asked me what I wanted in a man, I said I wanted a man with dark hair and green eyes, be careful what you ask for...there are forces just as powerful as God. The next 15 years of my life were hell for just wanting a physical entity...the rest of him was empty. Is there anything outside of the physical attributes that you really want? Of course there is a lot more that I want from a woman than just good looks. Looks just get a woman to the door. From then on it's all about her personality. Of the two girls I'm currently interested in, the one I like most, much more than other, isn't the one I'm the most physically attracted to. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Scorpio Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Maybe she is a sign of God throwing me a bone. He knows how much I want a girlfriend and exactly what I want her body to be like. It's like God saying, "Here you go. She is exactly what you want, and since I'm God, she is also a Christian." Exactly what you want? So, you've been able to discern her values (honesty, generosity, dedication, morality), her likes and dislikes (hobbies, interests, sexual proclivities), and her goals and aspirations (career, family, lifestyle, location)? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
skydiveaddict Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 (edited) Can a guy learn how to create chemistry? If so, how? Chemistry is the study of matter. You cannot create it. I'm just goofing with ya. But seriously you're making way too big a deal out of this. There's no way explain it. Ya just go out and meet people. If a girl likes you she will let you know. Edited November 17, 2014 by skydiveaddict 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Wow, this thread sure went in a weird direction.... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Maybe she's what gets me going back to church. Isn't that a good thing? I know you're taking some flak from some quarters, but on this point at least you have something in common. I have no idea if your level of piety/devotion is what she's looking for, but it's not as if you worship completely different religions! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
sillyanswer Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Wow, this thread sure went in a weird direction.... Don't they always? 5 Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 I agree with a few of the posts that have talked about physical attraction and that is probably what it comes down to. If someone is not physically attracted in any way they simply won't date a person. Then again I could meet Mr Great Looking Guy but if he has no interests, work, friends etc then we could well be lacking in things to talk about. Therefore I would go for Mr Average Looking Guy who has lots of interesting things to talk about. Both men are physically attractive to me but one has the edge in that he is interesting, stimulating and more likely to be a bit of a challenge. Gotta admit that the whole boobies conversation is off putting. I would never take a guy seriously if he sees me as a piece of meat. If I catch a guy too many times talking to or ogling my chest then it's very obvious what his interest in me is. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Gotta admit that the whole boobies conversation is off putting. I would never take a guy seriously if he sees me as a piece of meat. If I catch a guy too many times talking to or ogling my chest then it's very obvious what his interest in me is. I'm afraid that's just typical man-talk. It's just that most guys as they mature are better at not staring or ogling. Doesn't mean they don't think it 4 Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 I'm afraid that's just typical man-talk. It's just that most guys as they mature are better at not staring or ogling. Doesn't mean they don't think it Of course! Lol! I just have a lot more respect for a man when he is able to not look obvious about it. It tells me a lot about him as a person. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
xxoo Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 I'm afraid that's just typical man-talk. It's just that most guys as they mature are better at not staring or ogling. Doesn't mean they don't think it Sure, but on the topic of chemistry, what inspires it more? 13 year old behavior, or mature man behavior? 7 Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Sure, but on the topic of chemistry, what inspires it more? 13 year old behavior, or mature man behavior? To me it's the combination of both but then we would have to start talking about finesse and skill. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author somedude81 Posted November 17, 2014 Author Share Posted November 17, 2014 From everything I have written about Lunch girl, does she seem the type who would be fine with me ogling her? So of course I don't do it. I'm afraid that's just typical man-talk. It's just that most guys as they mature are better at not staring or ogling. Doesn't mean they don't think it Exactly. I notice the breasts of every woman who is age appropriate though I make sure not to stare. Large breasts excite me and I like to talk about them. But that doesn't mean each woman is nothing more than a pair of tits. I'm afraid that there is nothing I can say to get that point across and I'm vilified simply because I'm attracted to women with large breasts. It's like the whole thing about a woman wondering if a guy wants her just for sex because he's interested in her. It's completely natural for a guy to want to have sex with her. But that doesn't mean sex is the only thing he wants. To me it's the combination of both but then we would have to start talking about finesse and skill. Finesse and skill in what? Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Finesse and skill in what? Handling people. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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