improve my relationships.

[Xiang]

Hello everyone, again.

Point of the topic is to enligthen me and give me some general tips if possible on how to change my behavior to improve my relationships, if such a thing is possible.

 

We have to get down to the roots and know me before anything, but i can't really portray myself. However i will specify general behavior of mine in a relationship that is troublesome, if you can help in any way that'd be great.

 

Start slow...if you can help me with these, i mention other problems...

About me, experience and everything.

I'm 24, no sexual experience and very little anything else.

I've had 1 real relationship my whole life that was no longer than half a year.

It requires a great deal of effort from my side to ever get a woman interested in me. Uh for some reason a lot of women are attracted to me at first glance, i could probably have ONS's if i acted quick.

But they lose interest within a few days/weeks since i don't really reciprocrate anything...like other males. In essence i guess i'm ****ing dull xD. How can i fix that? lol

 

Also i can get a lot of females interested in me online, i mostly use this for practice for real life situation. But even online or in real life, i can never maintain the interest of a woman more than a month. Some chick was madly in love with me supposedly...stalking me almost, but hey in 1 month i managed to make her not want me at all...i'm that goood xD.

 

What has been adressed to me before is that...i don't show that i love them, that i ignore them. ._.

I'm rather asocial, i like my ME time, a lot of it. I can go days without talking to anyone but i'm not that selfish as to ignore you. I will still call you at least once a day to check on you, but i guess that's not enough.

This is what happens to me the most often, is it a prob? If so, how to fix?

I can't give to much attention either or they get boored...experienced that before also.

 

Yay to wall of text !

get no reply's...xD