thanaton Posted November 6, 2014 Share Posted November 6, 2014 I just joined a social networking site called MeetMe which is similar to Facebook and I really like it I don't have any friends yet though, there are a lot of good looking girls in my area and I would like some tips on how to make friends on these sites, all of the profiles have little to no info on them and the girls just say to message them, it's all legit because these girls usually have 5+ pics (of the same girl) and they've posted some unremarkable statuses. So my friends you've all been very helpful in the past and I thought I'd utilize this forum because once again I'm in need of help. I've never been good at making friends online or in person but I've never really learned how. My intention is to make friends find a girl to hangout with. I'd really appreciate any and all help that you can give. What is there to talk about with a girl on a social networking site? How do I hangout with her? How do I make friends with a girl on a social networking site? Link to post Share on other sites
BlueIris Posted November 6, 2014 Share Posted November 6, 2014 Just talk to her about the same things you talk to other people about, or ask her questions about herself to find out if you have things in common. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author thanaton Posted November 6, 2014 Author Share Posted November 6, 2014 Just talk to her about the same things you talk to other people about, or ask her questions about herself to find out if you have things in common. I've never really had any friends before so do I just ask her to hangout or something? I'd like to spend time with her. I lack social graces because I'm inexperienced. Link to post Share on other sites
gaius Posted November 6, 2014 Share Posted November 6, 2014 Put yourself in her head and come up with something you think she can relate to and find interesting to talk about. I can usually get a response out of a woman who doesn't even have anything written in her profile because I'm so good at it. You can tell a lot about someone just by looking at their picture. Thanaton, it's so tempting to just skip all the internet chat and ask her to meet in person but you generally have to warm her up with at least a couple messages. =/ A lot of them get nervous if you don't. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted November 6, 2014 Share Posted November 6, 2014 Ask what she likes to do and tell her what you like to do. See if you like the same things. If she or you have nothing to talk about because you do nothing but sit around on social media, then you'll hit the wall, so I advise you for every minute you spend talking on social media, to match that time with getting out of the house and going and doing something fun or interesting. Then you'll have something to talk about. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author thanaton Posted November 6, 2014 Author Share Posted November 6, 2014 Thanks I think I get it. But one final question we haven't gotten into too much is hanging out, this is where I really struggle with making friends I don't know how to bring it up or anything. How do I hangout with her? Link to post Share on other sites
Brimstone Posted November 6, 2014 Share Posted November 6, 2014 Thanks I think I get it. But one final question we haven't gotten into too much is hanging out, this is where I really struggle with making friends I don't know how to bring it up or anything. How do I hangout with her? "Hey, wanna go to (insert activity or place here) next week? I'd really like to meet you in person!" It's not that complicated. Good luck! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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