Sassy Girl Posted November 8, 2014 Share Posted November 8, 2014 My husband was the one who told me to put a lock on my phone because I have a habit of losing things. Plus he knows he can't access any of my work devices. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Minnie09 Posted November 8, 2014 Author Share Posted November 8, 2014 People text all the time...main form of communication. No one uses my phone and I've never asked anyone to use their phone. My phone has my numbers, not my partners phone. It really isn't that big of a deal to be texting with someone all the time. Not sure why it is so shocking to you. Not shocking.....just surprised because things CAN happen and things CAN change....and then what Link to post Share on other sites
Author Minnie09 Posted November 8, 2014 Author Share Posted November 8, 2014 For my husband it was my trust and the fact I treated him like an adult that allowed him to violate our marriage with an affair. He had strict rules for her- no contact after 4 pm (unless he was out of town on business which is every T-TH) or on weekends or holidays or vacations. I am unclear how she had time to call and text him in the evenings when he was out of town. Yeah....I don't have those rules. I AM holding back on weekends, though, but not because I am asked to, just because it's common sense. If I feel like I have something to share, like right away, I make contact no matter what, and I've never been chastized for it. I even feel more appreciated if I do, because he always acts thankful that I share stuff with him that's important to me. And he acts genuinely interested. I usually don't, though, because I am busy on weekends. But if I FEEL like it, I always do. Link to post Share on other sites
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