E-Squared Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 I really have to ask this. Would you think I was wrong or right for getting defensive with a woman who asked me if I was a virgin? Link to post Share on other sites
Author AVarma Posted January 24, 2015 Author Share Posted January 24, 2015 I really have to ask this. Would you think I was wrong or right for getting defensive with a woman who asked me if I was a virgin? Being asked isn't so bad. I mean it's strange but at least you can control the response. My brother, a frat boy slash douchebag, once loudly asked me in a party a year ago if I had managed to kiss a girl or have sex yet. You can imagine how awkward that was. The hot blonde girl I was talking to didn't seem so interested anymore. So yeah.. be thankful nobody has outed you. Link to post Share on other sites
LookAtThisPOst Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Let me ask you this. Would a religious/ Christian woman be turned off by this considering a matching belief system between the two genders? You need to not tell her your a virgin. No matter what the women here say, most women don't like virgins. By most I mean 90%+ If you are asked directly about your sexual history, feel free to lie. I would strongly encourage you to pay absolutely NO attention to what women say they want or don't want. Women get turned off and leave when they find out a guy is a virgin no matter what they say ahead of time. I speak not only from personal experience when I was one many years ago but also the experience of several other older male virgins / former older male virgins. So I am speaking from a point of authority on this subject. They just get massively turned off by this. It is just like a girl being grossly obese. Of course you wouldn't want to hurt her feelings and say that 90%+ of men are turned off by a grossly obese women. You want to be kind. But the overwhelming number of men ARE turned off by this. Yes there are a small number of men who are turned on by HUGE women, but they are in the minority. Same thing with being an older male virgin. Link to post Share on other sites
truth_seeker Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Go to a hooker. Just do it. Find some college girl who needs rent money, pay her, and bang her. If you're lucky, you develop a casual thing with her and get experience and confidence. You then start looking to date regular women. Don't tell any woman you're a virgin. Fake it till you make it. Just tell women you were in one long-term relationship with a girl from High School, that's why you're nervous and all out of sorts. They will completely understand, and think you're a sweet guy because you committed to one person for a long time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AVarma Posted January 24, 2015 Author Share Posted January 24, 2015 Go to a hooker. Just do it. Find some college girl who needs rent money, pay her, and bang her. If you're lucky, you develop a casual thing with her and get experience and confidence. You then start looking to date regular women. Don't tell any woman you're a virgin. Fake it till you make it. Just tell women you were in one long-term relationship with a girl from High School, that's why you're nervous and all out of sorts. They will completely understand, and think you're a sweet guy because you committed to one person for a long time. I'm not going to lie and say I haven't considered the escort route. Some of them are crazy attractive. I've haven't done it so far because it feels kind of lame. As if you're admitting that you can never get a real woman to sleep with you. Link to post Share on other sites
MrS-C Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 You just need to relax mate! My friend was a visit at 23....i tried so hard to help him....trying to set him up with girls etc.... In the end he found a nice girl and they have been together for 6 years.... You have it in you.... Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author AVarma Posted January 24, 2015 Author Share Posted January 24, 2015 You just need to relax mate! My friend was a visit at 23....i tried so hard to help him....trying to set him up with girls etc.... In the end he found a nice girl and they have been together for 6 years.... You have it in you.... Good luck Did she know he was a virgin or was this a fake it till you make it situation? Also I'm a bit older than your friend, 28 to be exact. I'm almost 30! Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 What are you other than a Virgin, OP? Link to post Share on other sites
Author AVarma Posted January 25, 2015 Author Share Posted January 25, 2015 What are you other than a Virgin, OP? Many things, why? Link to post Share on other sites
E-Squared Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 Being asked isn't so bad. I mean it's strange but at least you can control the response. My brother, a frat boy slash douchebag, once loudly asked me in a party a year ago if I had managed to kiss a girl or have sex yet. You can imagine how awkward that was. The hot blonde girl I was talking to didn't seem so interested anymore. So yeah.. be thankful nobody has outed you. Now why on earth would someone do that? If I were you, I would have kicked his ass for doing that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AVarma Posted January 25, 2015 Author Share Posted January 25, 2015 Now why on earth would someone do that? If I were you, I would have kicked his ass for doing that. He's bigger than me so most likely I would have gotten hurt and humiliated. Not worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
E-Squared Posted January 26, 2015 Share Posted January 26, 2015 Well, I am pretty big and I can kind of lose my cool if someone pushes me over the edge, so I probably could have taken his ass on. Link to post Share on other sites
justacollegekid Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 I would love nothing more to date a 28 year old virgin. Shows he is not a douchebag, does not sleep around, no STD's, probably not going to cheat on you since they are fine with waiting. I think what scares me is a 28 year old player. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AVarma Posted March 1, 2015 Author Share Posted March 1, 2015 I would love nothing more to date a 28 year old virgin. Shows he is not a douchebag, does not sleep around, no STD's, probably not going to cheat on you since they are fine with waiting. I think what scares me is a 28 year old player. He could also be shy and socially awkward, which is why I'm still a virgin. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LookAtThisPOst Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 He could also be shy and socially awkward, which is why I'm still a virgin. Meh, as if being shy and socially awkward is really all THAT bad, better than a drug user, alcoholic, abuser, cheater, etc. that I hear women complaining about all the time. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
leyateresa Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 If she is a nice girl and likes you for who you are as a person, then it shouldn't be a deciding factor, as long as the chemistry is there and you can end up enjoying everything in the end! Link to post Share on other sites
Galeena Posted March 2, 2015 Share Posted March 2, 2015 Well wud yu ever lyk to sex a girl frum russia? if so then yes yes. I wudnt mynd if yu was virgin, i am virgin frum russia tu. I am waiting for the rite guy for me, so i cum to america. Link to post Share on other sites
Author AVarma Posted March 8, 2015 Author Share Posted March 8, 2015 Meh, as if being shy and socially awkward is really all THAT bad, better than a drug user, alcoholic, abuser, cheater, etc. that I hear women complaining about all the time. Maybe not but woman will always go out with the guy who asks them out rather than the guy who is too shy to. Link to post Share on other sites
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