What is the main reason girls reject guys?

[smackie9]

I have only met two guys that had a thing for red hair. My husband says they have rust in their pipes lol.

[Tayken]

I have only met two guys that had a thing for red hair. My husband says they have rust in their pipes lol.

 

 

Please clarify that "red hair" is not the same as Ginger? I know in North America their is a lazy tendency to label people all the same.

 

There is a clear difference between a red head as we know it in Europe and a Ginger...the two never get mixed up. Gingers have freckles by default

[somedude81]

I'm sorry but your thread title is a bit misleading since in it you simply asked what can make a girl reject a guy.

 

But anyway, to answer the secondary question. YES. Awkwardness can be a very unattractive quality in a guy. While in a few it can actually be endearing, if you come across as a bumbling idiot or easily flustered around me my attraction to you diminishes real quick. It's lame. It makes you seem like a guy who'd potentially be a doormat.

 

It really sucks how inexperience with women actually turns women off.

 

How is the guy supposed to get the inexperience and confidence he needs to attract women, when they keep rejecting him?

[Mister Zen]

It really sucks how inexperience with women actually turns women off.

 

How is the guy supposed to get the inexperience and confidence he needs to attract women, when they keep rejecting him?

 

I'm often shocked at what men have been fooled into believing women care about. Experience isn't important.. what you offer is. And nothing more. Women will always look after themselves first. Men are simply there to function as a tool to further the woman's lifestyle.. material, image, reproduction, etc.

 

What you offer (or what she thinks you offer) is all that matters.

[smackie9]

I'm often shocked at what men have been fooled into believing women care about. Experience isn't important.. what you offer is. And nothing more. Women will always look after themselves first. Men are simply there to function as a tool to further the woman's lifestyle.. material, image, reproduction, etc.

 

What you offer (or what she thinks you offer) is all that matters.

 

 

Actually it's naturally instinctive because they need security for rearing children....it's in the DNA.

 

Get over it or be gay....I'm sure a man would understand you better than any woman.

[smackie9]

As they say a poor musician always blames his instrument.....stop blaming woman for your shortcomings.

[somedude81]

I'm often shocked at what men have been fooled into believing women care about. Experience isn't important.. what you offer is. And nothing more. Women will always look after themselves first. Men are simply there to function as a tool to further the woman's lifestyle.. material, image, reproduction, etc.

 

What you offer (or what she thinks you offer) is all that matters.

 

What do you mean fooled?

 

Of course women care about a guys experience. They want a guy who is confident and sure of himself. A guy who is awkward and insecure doesn't make her feel right, and turns her off.

[Tayken]

As they say a poor musician always blames his instrument.....stop blaming woman for your shortcomings.

 

 

Wow..short and coming in the same sentence. Well played

[Mister Zen]

Actually it's naturally instinctive because they need security for rearing children....it's in the DNA.

 

Get over it or be gay....I'm sure a man would understand you better than any woman.

 

There is nothing to "get over". I am simply providing education.

 

If my words make you cry, then maybe you still have a lot to learn.

[Mister Zen]

What do you mean fooled?

 

Of course women care about a guys experience. They want a guy who is confident and sure of himself. A guy who is awkward and insecure doesn't make her feel right, and turns her off.

 

Men with something to offer are confident. Women know this. If women only dated experienced men then all men would be virgins. So your statement lacks logic. Try again.

 

There have been many gay and impotent men who have wives and kids.

[ThaWholigan]

It really sucks how inexperience with women actually turns women off.

 

How is the guy supposed to get the inexperience and confidence he needs to attract women, when they keep rejecting him?

It's not the inexperience itself. It's how one handles it of course. I've been the awkward guy (hell, I'm still awkward at times ), and yeah, quite a few girls find it a bit off-putting.

 

This is why I always say you have to be more accepting and try to relax. When I relaxed about being a virgin, it was much easier to deal with my inexperience. Even now, I'm not bothered about my inexperience.

[Mister Zen]

It's not the inexperience itself. It's how one handles it of course. I've been the awkward guy (hell, I'm still awkward at times ), and yeah, quite a few girls find it a bit off-putting.

 

This is why I always say you have to be more accepting and try to relax. When I relaxed about being a virgin, it was much easier to deal with my inexperience. Even now, I'm not bothered about my inexperience.

 

Feeling awkward around women comes from over-valuing them. Take them off the pedestal.

[ThaWholigan]

Feeling awkward around women comes from over-valuing them. Take them off the pedestal.

I'm autistic, I'm awkward around everybody

[smackie9]

There is nothing to "get over". I am simply providing education.

 

If my words make you cry, then maybe you still have a lot to learn.

 

No they don't at all. I don't fit into this catagory because I never wanted children or to get married. I own my own house and I split the bills 50/50 with my (common law) husband regardless of him making almost double what I make. I don't feel entitled to his money. I'm fiercely independent.

[smackie9]

I know what women expect and I don't blame them for their demands.....if you can fulfill them, that makes you a man.

[Kav]

I know what women expect and I don't blame them for their demands.....if you can fulfill them, that makes you a man.

You don't become a man by fulfilling what women want, chickee.

[smackie9]

BTW I have dated very attractive, very unattractive and all in between. Short fat skinny tall, broke, shy, etc. It's about compatibility, how a man carries himself (confidence), and my preference of a nice ass. That's how I selected my husband.

[smackie9]

You don't become a man by fulfilling what women want, chickee.

 

Actually I get A LOT of interest from men and women hate me because my attitude ruins it for them.

[somedude81]

It's not the inexperience itself. It's how one handles it of course. I've been the awkward guy (hell, I'm still awkward at times ), and yeah, quite a few girls find it a bit off-putting.

 

This is why I always say you have to be more accepting and try to relax. When I relaxed about being a virgin, it was much easier to deal with my inexperience. Even now, I'm not bothered about my inexperience.

 

No, that's not quite it.

 

Despite what many people here think of me, I am very relaxed and comfortable around women.

 

The problem is that I get insecure and a bit awkward when I try to show that I want something from them.

 

Most women aren't naturally interested in a guy who isn't showing interest. They need a guy to do the "dance" and do it well.

[Kav]

Actually I get A LOT of interest from men and women hate me because my attitude ruins it for them.

That has no bearing on my statement.

Someone doesn't 'become' a man because they give you what it takes to sleep with you.

[smackie9]

So what does may I ask....so you can clarify for the ladies reading this thread.

[Kav]

No, that's not quite it.

 

Despite what many people here think of me, I am very relaxed and comfortable around women.

 

The problem is that I get insecure and a bit awkward when I try to show that I want something from them.

 

Most women aren't naturally interested in a guy who isn't showing interest. They need a guy to do the "dance" and do it well.

If a woman senses want that feels like desperation and is a killer. I dispute that they would be uninterested in a guy who is uninterested. I've found the reverse to be true.

[smackie9]

No, that's not quite it.

 

Despite what many people here think of me, I am very relaxed and comfortable around women.

 

The problem is that I get insecure and a bit awkward when I try to show that I want something from them.

 

Most women aren't naturally interested in a guy who isn't showing interest. They need a guy to do the "dance" and do it well.

A cool collective guy, oozing with confidence doesn't have to dance a dance for no one.

[Kav]

So what does may I ask....so you can clarify for the ladies reading this thread.

What makes a man is conducting oneself with honor and respect for others and willing to put himself in harm's way to protect another.

[smackie9]

It's not the inexperience itself. It's how one handles it of course. I've been the awkward guy (hell, I'm still awkward at times ), and yeah, quite a few girls find it a bit off-putting.

 

This is why I always say you have to be more accepting and try to relax. When I relaxed about being a virgin, it was much easier to deal with my inexperience. Even now, I'm not bothered about my inexperience.

 

Good attitude.