I admit it, I refuse to date unattractive men.

[Frank2thepoint]

Oh yay, another thread where people compare their ideal partner to celebrities. You know what, there is a really sexy 40 year old where I work at. She's got wild brunette hair, piercing blue eyes, crows feet around her eyes and wrinkles all over. She is hotter than any female celebrity. In fact, I'd push any attractive female celebrity's face away just to get a kiss from the 40 year old at work.

 

 

SOME men like certain things and others don't and EVERY SINGLE man doesn't only like big breasts or small breasts or skinny women or fat women etc.

 

Oh we're talking about boobies again. I like breasts, no matter the size.

[Mister Zen]

Not true for all older women. Some older women try to look for their settle guy with the good job, so they can start a family & be secured before their biological clock is up. But to apply that to all older woman is ridiculous. And what one woman finds a 10/10 another might find to be a 7/10 in looks.

 

Show me where I said "all women".

[ThaWholigan]

Show me where I said "all women".

 

 

Its not hard to grasp at all. Remember I started a thread about it:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/497555-women-much-looks-men-i-think-so

 

There is no difference between the 18 year old mall girl and the 28 year old PHD. They all want to get shagged by the hottest, richest man they can find. The older they get the more 'civilized' they get because they can't compete with younger women. They start going for $$$ more than looks because they have to...but don't think for a minute they're happy about it.

 

Right there

[NJ123]

Its not hard to grasp at all. Remember I started a thread about it:

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/497555-women-much-looks-men-i-think-so

 

There is no difference between the 18 year old mall girl and the 28 year old PHD. They all want to get shagged by the hottest, richest man they can find. The older they get the more 'civilized' they get because they can't compete with younger women. They start going for $$$ more than looks because they have to...but don't think for a minute they're happy about it.

 

You clearly said all in your post.

[Tayken]

@OP....good for you, stick to your guns.

 

Rolling Stones - Everybody Needs Somebody To Love (Live! On The BBC 1965) - YouTube

 

Oh we're talking about boobies again. I like breasts, no matter the size.

 

They are the most useless things in the grand scheme of things

[MidwestUSA]

Stick to your guns, ladies, stick to your guns.

 

[fortyninethousand322]

Yeah, I think this is right. Attractiveness is more than just how someone looks physically. There's a whole lot of other stuff that goes into it.

[Mister Zen]

You clearly said all in your post.

 

So all women don't want the most attractive man (to them) they can find?

 

Get the context right.

[Mister Zen]

I may have only started this account in Feb of this year but I've been an on/of member here for a few years. That being the case, I can say with some degree of certainty your comment is wildly inaccurate. I've yet to see the women of LS collectively disagree with basic common sense.

 

Then you need glasses or you need to read more threads.

[WhatIsLove2014]

There is no difference between the 18 year old mall girl and the 28 year old PHD. They all want to get shagged by the hottest, richest man they can find.

 

Rich has nothing to do with this.

 

Hot=attractive...some PEOPLE want to be attracted to their SOs...nothing wrong with that, right?

[CarrieT]

Man, when I was about 12 I saw Quills for the first time and boy do I tell you I saw that man in a whole new light! Not so much today thought. But I'll see your Geoffrey Rush and raise you Timothy Dalton.

 

Oh yes....

 

I would do Timothy Dalton in a New York minute.

 

Right now, my current obsession is Gabriel Byrne. <swoon>

[NJ123]

So all women don't want the most attractive man (to them) they can find?

 

Get the context right.

 

I do agree that women do try to get the most attractive man they could possibly get with. But the thing is not all these attractive guys are going to have the greatest personalities. There's more to it than just looks. Yes, it's the first thing that anyone looks at in terms of whether their going to specifically go on a date with them, but than there's a whole list of other things that come into fruition of whether they'll become exclusive or even marry. Not all women would put up with a guy's ****ty personality or care about how much money a guy has. There's a lot of genuinely good women out there that don't care about how much a guy makes & don't care that he doesn't look like a male model.

[WhatIsLove2014]

I do agree that women do try to get the most attractive man they could possibly get with. But the thing is not all these attractive guys are going to have the greatest personalities. There's more to it than just looks. Yes, it's the first thing that anyone looks at in terms of whether their going to specifically go on a date with them, but than there's a whole list of other things that come into fruition of whether they'll become exclusive or even marry. Not all women would put up with a guy's ****ty personality or care about how much money a guy has. There's a lot of genuinely good women out there that don't care about how much a guy makes & don't care that he doesn't look like a male model.

 

Yeesssss!!!!

[Mister Zen]

I do agree that women do try to get the most attractive man they could possibly get with. But the thing is not all these attractive guys are going to have the greatest personalities. There's more to it than just looks. Yes, it's the first thing that anyone looks at in terms of whether their going to specifically go on a date with them, but than there's a whole list of other things that come into fruition of whether they'll become exclusive or even marry. Not all women would put up with a guy's ****ty personality or care about how much money a guy has. There's a lot of genuinely good women out there that don't care about how much a guy makes & don't care that he doesn't look like a male model.

 

This is both true and false. Its the equivalent of saying there are lots of men who don't care if a woman is obese as long as she has a great personality.

 

Truth is.. it comes down to options in the end. You don't get who you want.. you get who wants you. If no handsome men with money want you.. then you don't really have the "option" of caring about those things since they are out of reach for you anyway.

[Lernaean_Hydra]

What do you think that I believe the point of your thread is?

 

Apparently you think it's about all women wanting the hottest richest guy they can find.

[NJ123]

This is both true and false. Its the equivalent of saying there are lots of men who don't care if a woman is obese as long as she has a great personality.

 

Truth is.. it comes down to options in the end. You don't get who you want.. you get who wants you. If no handsome men with money want you.. then you don't really have the "option" of caring about those things since they are out of reach for you anyway.

 

Well, if you want to settle for someone you don't find attractive than yeah. But most people won't want to be with someone their not attracted to. It wouldn't be fair to them or yourself. It'll likely lead to possible cheating & be a depressing relationship.

 

And there actually are a lot of men that find obese women attractive. It's about personal preference in what someone finds attractive in that regard. But what I was getting at is that not every woman is expecting to get with someone that's a 9 or 10 in looks. One woman can find a guy really attractive, while another would think he's unattractive. Same viewpoint for men.

[Mister Zen]

Apparently you think it's about all women wanting the hottest richest guy they can find.

 

Wrong.

 

Its about how every woman has a different idea of what is attractive looks-wise. Then I made the point that I already made a thread pointing out how women care about looks.

 

Glad we cleared that up.

[Anela]

Wrong.

 

Its about how every woman has a different idea of what is attractive looks-wise. Then I made the point that I already made a thread pointing out how women care about looks.

 

Glad we cleared that up.

 

You both made different points. You make it sound like we're all chasing the perfect-looking rich men. I don't recall John Turturro winning, "Sexiest Man Alive" awards, at any time, and yet Learnan thinks he's hot.

[Mister Zen]

You both made different points. You make it sound like we're all chasing the perfect-looking rich men. I don't recall John Turturro winning, "Sexiest Man Alive" awards, at any time, and yet Learnan thinks he's hot.

 

You're all chasing the best looking and richest man you can get. For some women, that is a man that works at Walmart. But he is still better than the homeless man.. which are probably her other options.

 

If you actually take the time to think about my posts before having a knee-jerk reaction to them.. you might actually grasp the point I'm making.

[Lernaean_Hydra]

You're all chasing the best looking and richest man you can get. For some women, that is a man that works at Walmart. But he is still better than the homeless man.. which are probably her other options.

 

If you actually take the time to think about my posts before having a knee-jerk reaction to them.. you might actually grasp the point I'm making.

 

It seems futile to even argue your points further because it's clear you have ideologies and thought patterns that while many others disagree with, you find some comfort in. Fine. Whatever helps you get through the day I guess.

[NJ123]

You're all chasing the best looking and richest man you can get. For some women, that is a man that works at Walmart. But he is still better than the homeless man.. which are probably her other options.

 

If you actually take the time to think about my posts before having a knee-jerk reaction to them.. you might actually grasp the point I'm making.

 

So which women are the ones that only have options with a guy who works at Walmart or a homeless man? A nice attractive, successful, caring woman would still be willing to go out with a guy who works a low paying job if they get along really good & he treats her well. Not every woman is shallow in that regard. Guarantee you there's plenty of people in happy relationships where there's situations where the woman has a great job, while the guy has a low paying job, but still doesn't think of him any differently.

Edited November 10, 2014 by NJ123

[Mister Zen]

It seems futile to even argue your points further because it's clear you have ideologies and thought patterns that while many others disagree with, you find some comfort in. Fine. Whatever helps you get through the day I guess.

 

And how are you any different exactly?

[amaysngrace]

Christopher meloni looks like many guys I know, and has that masculinity that makes him wicked sexy.

 

I use to watch "Oz" just for his shower scenes. God really looked kindly on him, if you know what I mean.

[Mister Zen]

So which women are the ones that only have options with a guy who works at Walmart or a homeless man? A nice attractive, successful, caring woman would still be willing to go out with a guy who works a low paying job if they get along really good & he treats her well. Not every woman is shallow in that regard. Guarantee you there's plenty of people in happy relationships where there's situations where the woman has a great job, while the guy has a low paying job, but still doesn't think of him any differently.

 

Where did you get the idea that a woman having a high paying job increases her dating options?

 

A cute girl working at Starbucks has more dating options than someone like Oprah for instance.

[NJ123]

Where did you get the idea that a woman having a high paying job increases her dating options?

 

A cute girl working at Starbucks has more dating options than someone like Oprah for instance.

 

Well it seems to me you were trying to imply that the woman must have a low paying job herself to go out with a guy who works at Wal-Mart or a homeless man.