Are there any real women out there?

[steevie97]

This is going to be a good one. You married someone that you thought would be your match.Turns out, the "one" you wound up with just wants you for our paycheck. And then you wind up with a spouce that can't work, mom moves in. And the kids are wanting to move in. And with one paycheck, you have to support them all. (me). So, why am I here? I thought this was a hookup site. After registering, I found out the details. So, I figured I would at least get this off my chest. So, why do guys screw around? When the sex if so-so at home, the other half can't do much, and the longing for someone different comes into play, the end result is a guy looking for something extra on the side. (like me). I doubt I'll find someone on here in my area. So, If I do, then I'll be off here.

So, go ahead and let me have it. I'm not thin skinned. What do you think?

[CarrieT]

I think you are delusional if you believe having an affair is going to make your life feel better.

 

And, yes, you came to the wrong place.

[central]

I think you should file for divorce, and be done with the manipulation on both sides. There is NOTHING to be gained by perpetuating this mutual disaster.

[BlueIris]

This is going to be a good one. You married someone that you thought would be your match.Turns out, the "one" you wound up with just wants you for our paycheck. And then you wind up with a spouce that can't work, mom moves in. And the kids are wanting to move in. And with one paycheck, you have to support them all. (me). So, why am I here? I thought this was a hookup site. After registering, I found out the details. So, I figured I would at least get this off my chest. So, why do guys screw around? When the sex if so-so at home, the other half can't do much, and the longing for someone different comes into play, the end result is a guy looking for something extra on the side. (like me). I doubt I'll find someone on here in my area. So, If I do, then I'll be off here.

So, go ahead and let me have it. I'm not thin skinned. What do you think?

 

Don’t marry someone until you KNOW that person is your match, there is good reason to know that he or she is going to be a good partner for life. You didn’t “wind up with” someone. You have free will and you chose her. Be responsible for yourself.

 

Hooking up isn’t the solution to your problem. Your hooking up mentality IS your problem. Get your head out of the clouds (or wherever it is) and realize that your own thoughts and actions are creating your own life and circumstances.

 

You sound as though you’re short-sighted and impulsive (not even seeing what LS was before signing up? C’mon…). Stop swinging from one impulsive action to the next and you’re more likely to mature and build a solid stable life rather than a melodrama.

[Michelle ma Belle]

This is going to be a good one. You married someone that you thought would be your match.Turns out, the "one" you wound up with just wants you for our paycheck. And then you wind up with a spouce that can't work, mom moves in. And the kids are wanting to move in. And with one paycheck, you have to support them all. (me). So, why am I here? I thought this was a hookup site. After registering, I found out the details. So, I figured I would at least get this off my chest. So, why do guys screw around? When the sex if so-so at home, the other half can't do much, and the longing for someone different comes into play, the end result is a guy looking for something extra on the side. (like me). I doubt I'll find someone on here in my area. So, If I do, then I'll be off here.

So, go ahead and let me have it. I'm not thin skinned. What do you think?

 

Wait...what?! You thought LS was a hookup site?

 

Did I miss something?

[d0nnivain]

Why can't you say NO?

 

Have you ever had a budget / financial meeting with your wife . . . show her the #s & find out what her & her mother's contribution will be? That may help.

 

Otherwise, rather than hooking up -- because really how will you have the money to have an affair -- just get a divorce. It will be cheaper for you in the long run.

[serial muse]

This is going to be a good one. You married someone that you thought would be your match.Turns out, the "one" you wound up with just wants you for our paycheck. And then you wind up with a spouce that can't work, mom moves in. And the kids are wanting to move in. And with one paycheck, you have to support them all. (me). So, why am I here? I thought this was a hookup site. After registering, I found out the details. So, I figured I would at least get this off my chest. So, why do guys screw around? When the sex if so-so at home, the other half can't do much, and the longing for someone different comes into play, the end result is a guy looking for something extra on the side. (like me). I doubt I'll find someone on here in my area. So, If I do, then I'll be off here.

So, go ahead and let me have it. I'm not thin skinned. What do you think?

 

I think you're on the wrong site. Also, you're not going to have PMs enabled unless you become a regular poster (requires both a minimum post count and time spent registered), so even if you did find someone you want to hook up with you wouldn't be able to set it up. Not how LS works.

 

But feel free to rant away in the rant forum, down below. That's what you can do here.

 

Won't bother to comment much on your specific situation at home because it seems you've already made up your mind anyway that seeking an affair is the way you want to go. Although I'm curious about the "kids wanting to move in" bit. So, they're adults but want to move back home? Then it's not at all clear what's keeping you there rather than just manning up and moving out. But hey, your life, your choice.

 

Also not clear what the thread title has to do with your post. Is a "real woman" one who'll have an affair with you?

Edited November 13, 2014 by serial muse