alexjames Posted November 13, 2014 Share Posted November 13, 2014 I've been with my GF for around 3 months. It started off great, we'd go for days out, for the odd meal, walks, cinema etc. I fell in love with her really quickly. She has a really bad case of depression that she is on medication for aswell as having psychotherapy sessions etc regularly. However, over the last month or so, her anxiety issues have really got on top of her. She won't leave the house (she hasn't been to work for months), she won't come round mine as she is too anxious, she is constantly tired and she literally won't step out the door unless it's to go to doctor appointment etc. I love her to bits and don't want to leave her, but I will admit, it's putting a strain on myself. We are meant to be going on a 4 day weekend in Italy in early December along with my parents, but I'm really doubting that it's going to happen. I'm really scared of losing her, but I just don't know what to do. How long these anxiety issues can last etc? I'm really confused, worried and not sure whats happening Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted November 13, 2014 Share Posted November 13, 2014 so basically she is housebound........does she do her own shopping? when you go out where do you go? Link to post Share on other sites
Author alexjames Posted November 13, 2014 Author Share Posted November 13, 2014 At the minute she is. She lives with her parents who try and get her out when they can, even if it's just to go to the shop or whatever. When we do go out, we go to the cinema, go for walks down the coast or the woods etc, go shopping in the city and random drives etc, go to the zoo, all the normal things. But at the minute, it's not quite happening. it's not her fault, im always going to support her and help her to get back to how she was, it'll take a bit of time, but just need some words or advice really! Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted November 13, 2014 Share Posted November 13, 2014 its really not something you can rush....takes time i dont know if its actual people anxiety or anxiety about being in the open....where does the anxiety stem from...what exasperates the anxiety..deb Link to post Share on other sites
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