intheblinkofaneye Posted November 14, 2014 Share Posted November 14, 2014 How do you handle the upcoming holidays.. I am only 1 month and 1 week in from Dday. Still taking it slow,day by day. Somtimes moment by moment. All the family knows what has happened (I called in a fog days after it happened and told everyone. I do regeret doing that now) They are 100% behind me in what ever path I choose. Wether I stay with him or go.. It is sad to say everyone in my family has been through this same terrible thing. Some as the betrayed and some as they betrayer and some both. Thanksgiving is near and then Christmas then New Years and then my Birthday. If we went to the annual Thanksgiving dinner I know it would be difficult,awkward, and probably everything in between. But if we stayed out of the tradition it would be very sad and I would not want to go alone and face all the looks. And the thought of him not being with me at the Holidays is very sad. He would be alone as well. And yes I know he deserves to be alone ,he caused this to be.. but please:(.... Sorry you see so many questions from me. Im sure I will have tons more Link to post Share on other sites
jm2013 Posted November 14, 2014 Share Posted November 14, 2014 How do you handle the upcoming holidays.. I am only 1 month and 1 week in from Dday. Still taking it slow,day by day. Somtimes moment by moment. All the family knows what has happened (I called in a fog days after it happened and told everyone. I do regeret doing that now) They are 100% behind me in what ever path I choose. Wether I stay with him or go.. It is sad to say everyone in my family has been through this same terrible thing. Some as the betrayed and some as they betrayer and some both. Thanksgiving is near and then Christmas then New Years and then my Birthday. If we went to the annual Thanksgiving dinner I know it would be difficult,awkward, and probably everything in between. But if we stayed out of the tradition it would be very sad and I would not want to go alone and face all the looks. And the thought of him not being with me at the Holidays is very sad. He would be alone as well. And yes I know he deserves to be alone ,he caused this to be.. but please:(.... Sorry you see so many questions from me. Im sure I will have tons more Do you have kids together? My D-Day was around the same time as yours last year. We ended up doing the holidays at our house by ourselves. We did not go anywhere. In fact, it was ironically probably one of the best holidays we had. It was just us, the kids and some family time spent together. We plan on doing the same thing this year. Her affair destroyed her relationship with her parents so we do no associate with them currently. My mom and brother may come over but that's about it. Take care of yourself and try to make the best of things. Link to post Share on other sites
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