prayformydownfall Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 ok so have a think about this.... u may be going thro pain at the moment, u may struggle to wash those thoughts of ur ex out ur head but how does it really compare to things that u may have to deal with in your life or that other people are dealing with now???? U battle ur way thro this and itll make u stronger wen u have to face somethin bigger later in life... just imagine, you could be watching ur children dying and theres nothin u can do to stop it, u may be fighting cancer every day of ur lives only for the next day it still remains or you could be a child in asia, orphaned due to the tsunami and who's gonna raise you or care for you now?? be thankful for what uve been given in ur life, not what u have lost. u have to learn ur lessons from the past, not spend every day obsessing over what happened, whats the point theres nothin u can do now?!?! the past is merely a memory, a lesson to be learnt from - you could live to die, or u could die living!! - which would u prefer? sometimes i wonder why i wasted my last three months obsessing over the ex, because any minute i spent not livin to my true potential was truly wasted.... perhaps someone else in a worse situation deserved that chance more? so LS be strong, move on, u will find something better, stop being a negative and become a positive - yes i saw my ex today - yes shes been hanging round on aol, yes she parks next to me, but u know somethin, y should i care.... anyone who has made me feel worthless is no longer worthy of my time!!! PFMD Link to post Share on other sites
gwennebe Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 Thank you for that. I think I truly needed it to kick myself in the A&&. Why hurt myself more? He should be the one hurting!! Link to post Share on other sites
beejsea2 Posted March 16, 2005 Share Posted March 16, 2005 Your post is so true!! I kick myself in the pants now when I start getting weepy over my ex!! I have an Uncle dying of cancer. I have a friend who's going through hell because his 12 year old daughter is battling anorexia!! I look at all the things just around me and I'm like...so he left..you're not dying, sick!! Just Monday an old boyfriend that I've remained friends with sent me 2 doz red roses as a pick me up so things aren't that bad in my life! Link to post Share on other sites
Author prayformydownfall Posted March 16, 2005 Author Share Posted March 16, 2005 lol no need to kick yourselves in the ass, dont want a load of bruising on LS cus of me!! it was just to remind ppl there are worse things in the world that are happenin all round us, so lets appreciate what we have!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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