lovestinksyeahyeah Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 (edited) I have tried to move on with my life, isn't that how it always works? He remains in my thoughts on a daily basis and I have not given up hope. I know I wouldn't want to be with anybody else but he broke up with me and I learned to accept it after a while. Last night he randomly started texting me about the weather which turned into us going back and forth all night - reminiscing, joking...it was the most positive conversation we've had since even before the break-up. Aside from a few dinners over the course of the year to catch up we haven't had much communication at all which is why last night was surprising to me. Is he coming back around? Do I have a shot to make this work? I know it is a slow process but I want the best chances for us and I'm unsure how to move forward from here. Obviously the first thing to do would be to see if he contacts me again as I won't text him. He would say something and then apologize...and backtrack. He apologized for the initial text saying that it was an impluse text and then a few other things he said in the conversation. Not sure what to think of this. Edited November 20, 2014 by lovestinksyeahyeah Link to post Share on other sites
Invictus01 Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 I have tried to move on with my life, isn't that how it always works? He remains in my thoughts on a daily basis and I have not given up hope. I know I wouldn't want to be with anybody else but he broke up with me and I learned to accept it after a while. Last night he randomly started texting me about the weather which turned into us going back and forth all night - reminiscing, joking...it was the most positive conversation we've had since even before the break-up. Aside from a few dinners over the course of the year to catch up we haven't had much communication at all which is why last night was surprising to me. Is he coming back around? Do I have a shot to make this work? I know it is a slow process but I want the best chances for us and I'm unsure how to move forward from here. Obviously the first thing to do would be to see if he contacts me again as I won't text him. He would say something and then apologize...and backtrack. He apologized for the initial text saying that it was an impluse text and then a few other things he said in the conversation. Not sure what to think of this. Let him do the work. You should find out pretty quickly what's up. Link to post Share on other sites
me85 Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 Has he been seeing anyone else since the BU? Make sure he isn't just using you. I would not initiate contact and only respond in short to his messages. If he's already backtracking then that's not a good sign. He's just seeing if he still has feelings for you really and whether you really have feelings for him or not. Link to post Share on other sites
AlexfromBoston Posted November 21, 2014 Share Posted November 21, 2014 Invictus pretty much spelled out your battle plan. You need to play it cool, don't be too available and let him put in the miles. As a guy, it sounds like the grass wasn't as green on the other side and he's starting to have some regrets. However, that said, it is important you don't go running back to him or answer all his calls and texts. If he thinks he can still rope you in with ease, hell go back to playing the field, knowing that he always has you in his pocket. Link to post Share on other sites
me85 Posted November 21, 2014 Share Posted November 21, 2014 Love OP's username btw. The Wedding Singer rocks! Link to post Share on other sites
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