CoconutJuice Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Dear All faithfull partner, Let me tell you why I got this unique equiptment... Before I married, my hubby was kinda player, with local girls, people he met online.. he's quit an attractive man. Met him shortly and got married and found this out later… His job work very close to people -physically, and work after hours, he oncall every other week, at night weekends.. (pc tech at big hospital) so it make me wondering all the time when he left home.. if that girl sitting behind that computer who call him in to fix it, flirtin with him, or if hes flirting wiht her.. sometimes just two of them in the office at night.. you know what I mean... I was worried... I want to confront him and ask him, then I know we will fight But ... I really want to know if he do anything behind my back... In the mean timehe could be a nice guy just working hard and honest...and should not acusing him that... But how would I know that... So I searched online and found this equipment, I bough it and use it everyday. I can monitor him and hear him talking anywhere he goes... I know its unethical, but instead of accusing him or being a full.... I thinkg its the best solution.. so far I have not heard anything that showing cheating...only onetime... I cought him, he went naighbor's house, and have some beers... and I found that they were also wathing a porn.. because I could hear everything him and his neighbor said... after 10 minutes I called him that I need him to be home now, needs some help... anyway,, I felt much better I dont have to worry too much.. just secure my mind and I am still doing it once in a while If anyone interest... please let know..if its going to help you your situation... Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 I thinkg its the best solution.. How is it a solution? Knowing that you are being cheated on doesn't solve the problems that cause cheating. Does your device help you with your insecurity issues that led you to obsessively monitor his every move in the first place? Link to post Share on other sites
Sad Flower Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 My god that is so I don't even know what to say, I would never put myself through all that trouble and stress monitoring my cheating hubbies every word and movement! If someone is that untrusted just give them the boot be strong secure and just dump him instead of having to stalk your own husband. How does that device work, does he even know you are using it, does he allow you to put it on him?!?!?! Link to post Share on other sites
NTB Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 man if i was married to you i seriously would be freaking out you have major trust issues Link to post Share on other sites
Sad Flower Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 man if i was married to you i seriously would be freaking out you have major trust issues Right! Girl this is so crazy WHY do this to yourself, do you not work, do you really have that much time to be worrying about his every word or move, do you enjoy the sounds of him on the crapper too???? Just straight up absurd! Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 What kinda device can you use to hear everything he says? For that to happen he would have to be wearing it. I think this is just another troll who's come up from under it's bridge. BTW, use spell-checker before posting. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Yup. I was thinking also along the lines of a 'forum-marketer' who spams up boards with devices, etc that prey on people's vulnerabilities and hopes. I was hoping my reply would bait a response, but when another thread was started instead I figured that was the case. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Damn. How's it on him? Is it attached to his clothes, or did you insert it under his subcutaneous layer of skin while he was sleepin, or what?! Why's he not honest? That's sh*tty that you two have to go through this! This seems so sad. Link to post Share on other sites
li'l bunny Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 Cool....where can I get one...?! Link to post Share on other sites
FolderWife Posted March 17, 2005 Share Posted March 17, 2005 I want one too! Link to post Share on other sites
Author CoconutJuice Posted March 17, 2005 Author Share Posted March 17, 2005 As I expected, some oppose opinions, I used to think that way… Now have you seen TV show “Cheaters” what do you think about that?… only this is more private (just you know) and safer way.. Calm down people.. its not as bad.. I only do it when he stay too late, which he told me he’ll be home in half an hour and two hours still not show up.. or Pager ring the middle of Sat night and he tell me that he had to go into work, what was I suppose to do, follow him and spy on him?, isn’t that the same thing? Only this is easier and wont get caught? In my situation, I am sure there many out there similar or worse… it really has nothing to do with insecurity… just not trust him too much, after seeing him checking out other girls and make a common on it or flirted with a waitress with me sitting across from him… Life would be so easy and no worries if you know the truth isn’t it? That’s the problem is “you don’t know for sure” and “don’t want to accuse anyone” in the mean time you are torn apart ..with some incidents… If things are so easy to solve, this room would not filled with people that had this kind of problems right? You wouldn’t understand if you are not in the situation.. We fight a lot, because I would questioned him, have this attitude and not being happy when comes home late… Its not easy to just get up and divorce a man … or assuming nothing happen, wait until things are too late.. You love the man, don’t want to loose it if its not necessary. On the other hand, if I caught him cheating on me without him knowing it, I would be prepare, and talk an attorney, which would be best for me and my two kids… you see don’t you think its smarter way…Take care of yourself lady! if I Not all men are all honest or all bad, there are many ways to deal with the problem…So if you still don’t understand that, that’s your opinions and I respect that… Now I am pretty much done with… I didn’t see any major problems just minor one, most men are dog anyway... It helps me secure my mind that he s trying and keeping his promised that he would changed when I confronted him .. That’s reason why I want to get rid of the device.. I am not planning to use it for life, just to check and Make sure, all I can you tell it helps, my attitude has changed, and I trust him more, I am more happy.. and he is happy If you sill don’t understand that … then its your opinions! Thank you for your input Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 That sounds like a fun 'n' functional relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Ms_Sweetness Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 I want one too!! Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 Tell me more about this equipment. Where do I get one?.....lol Jade Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 I don't think the cost of this thing will will be worth the loss of your relationship when your partner realizes what you've done by affixing this creepy voyeuristic device onto him without his knowledge. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 Invasion of privacy...Seems that route, spying and listening in is just plain wrong! Honesty and truthfulness. If you are suspecting him of cheating or doing something he shouldn't be doing, then ASK HIM about it. Two wrongs don't make a right. Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 I agree with what WW said and Lucrezia even though I wanted to know more about the equipment in my above post, but it did sound good, even if it was for a split second..lol Jade Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 Ladies, are you really believing this stuff??? Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 Originally posted by tiki Damn. How's it on him? Is it attached to his clothes, or did you insert it under his subcutaneous layer of skin while he was sleepin, or what?! She used her rectal probe... Trouble is, she always misses about half an hour of valuable spying time barfing up after he goes to the bathroom. Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 Originally posted by kooky Ladies, are you really believing this stuff??? Nah, I figure its some way to sell stuff through PM's. But its fun to talk about. Heh. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 It's kind of giving me a sick feeling. That I could have access to his every word. Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia Nah, I figure its some way to sell stuff through PM's. But its fun to talk about. Heh. Ok, let's report the poster to the mods and get his ass kicked out. Link to post Share on other sites
WithOrWithoutYou Posted March 19, 2005 Share Posted March 19, 2005 Does it work even if the person listening is standing under a nearby bridge? Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted March 19, 2005 Share Posted March 19, 2005 I wonder if it interferes with radio and cell phones, and if these people will then start to let out a really loud interference sound? Link to post Share on other sites
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