If a guy invites a girl to his place after the first meeting/date, it means hook up?

[LisaSmith_1970]

It usually means sex right? Guys don't invite girls to their place to just chat...

[CatalystNX]

Depends on the situation and the guy.

[Lernaean_Hydra]

It usually means sex right? Guys don't invite girls to their place to just chat...

 

That's the general idea, yes. I mean, it depends on the circumstances and I've been in cases where the night sort of progressed back to someone's house for a nightcap or something but if a guy invites you over that's usually what it means. Or at the very least a possibility you should be prepared for. If this is a first meetup and he automatically invites you to his then definitely yes.

[Ninjainpajamas]

Yes...generally.

[Coe]

Yes obviously. I always invite a girl back at the end of a good date. I do expect to get a no though and I'm usually a little happy when they do say no.

[Cedar27]

Depends on the situation and the guy.

 

This. Every guy is different. For all you know he's just being polite and wants to talk to you a bit more. Play it all by ear. He'll let you know.

[todreaminblue]

It usually means sex right? Guys don't invite girls to their place to just chat...

 

 

make sure someone else is there too if you feel nervous ......if you dont feel right about it....dont go.......be honest with him ...say its a bit too soon for me...be honest with yourself and what you are comfortable with

 

 

it might be totally innocent but if you are going to feel like a caged bird and i have been there...wanting to escape....

 

 

suggest instead some where public and neutral to have that chat till you know him better...because honestly it might be innocent on his behalf....but if you have to ask what he expects from strangers....you arent ready to go there to his place yet...you dont know him well enough.....

 

golden rule of thumb....know the guy and feel safe with him....

 

 

as a woman...dont put yourself in a position where you dont feel right or secure...doesnt make for easy going conversation if you are on edge..

 

stay safe by knowing the guy well and feel comfortable with him implicitly...before you head back to his house alone...just a suggestion to ensure your happiness and safety ...if he respects you he will understand.........deb

[Eternal Sunshine]

Do you want my personal statistics?

 

Yes:no (43:1)

[skyblue707]

It usually means sex right? Guys don't invite girls to their place to just chat...

 

How many times have you been around the block, lisa smith?

[Andy_K]

It means he would like the possibility of sex to be on the table. Which you already know anyway, since he's dating you.

 

You can get a much better feel for his character by how he handles you going to his place and not sleeping with him, than you can by how he acts on an out and about date.

 

So if you've got any level of self control, I'd say go along with it just to find out what he's really like.

[d0nnivain]

I would assume that a man was suggesting sex & go forward from there. It's not necessarily a bad thing but you do need to me an informed intelligent choice about what you are getting yourself into. Remember you can talk in public places; it's not that easy to have sex in public places.

[Standard-Fare]

It means he would like the possibility of sex to be on the table. Which you already know anyway, since he's dating you.

 

You can get a much better feel for his character by how he handles you going to his place and not sleeping with him, than you can by how he acts on an out and about date.

 

So if you've got any level of self control, I'd say go along with it just to find out what he's really like.

 

I don't know. That early on in dating, if you don't want to have sex yet, just keep it simple -- hold off on going to each other's places.

 

That can come later. And when it happens, it doesn't inevitably have to mean full-blown sex, but I think it's safe to assume something physical is going to happen.