digger Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 Hi Guys Its been a while. At my last letter I told you about getting the call from EW-she had sold the house. needed me to sign papers, went into that 10 minute non stop tirade about you did this, you did that, were not getting back togetrher and I LOVE ***, there i said it". That was pretty much it for me. And you know what, even tho it shred my heart and chewed at my stomach, (yes the pain has gone from my chest to my gut) I havent broken down and cried over it yet. If it took that, it finally made me realize what a piece of **** she has been treating me like. So this weekend. I wrote her a dear john letter. i'M THRU!! gO AWAY!! yOUR NOT WORTH IT!! Have a great life!! ETC It was a great feeling to drop it in the mailbox. I really felt vindicated. 2 days later i get an email. Digger Ive cancelled the credit card both our names were on. I know youve been using it so Im having them send you paperwork for a new one. i just didnt want you to be caught off guard.. WTF????????? Link to post Share on other sites
Author digger Posted March 18, 2005 Author Share Posted March 18, 2005 I mean, for the first time shes showing civility? Why would she even care. Just cancell the damn thing, i"ll figure it out. And to have them even sending me new application forms? I truly think shes lost it. Link to post Share on other sites
Devildog Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 digger, I hope you are truly prepared to move on now. It is time for that. For you to start healing and finding someone worthy and faithful. It's funny, when you start pushing them away for your own good, they seem to suddenly get civilized. My XW did this after I stopped answering her calls. Suddenly she wasn't jumping down my throat and blaming me and getting ticked off. Not sure why they act that way. Maybe they are just spoiled children who suddenly realize you mean business at that point. Link to post Share on other sites
Author digger Posted March 18, 2005 Author Share Posted March 18, 2005 good thot devil "take your cat and leave my sweaters, we have nothing more to waether..but you will think of me" Link to post Share on other sites
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted March 18, 2005 Share Posted March 18, 2005 So it's all over and done with, eh? Congratulations on your divorce. Really, you have no choice but to start looking at it as a new beginning - a new life for yourself. Meet some new people, get active, spend time with your daughter and promise each other not to bring you-know-who into the conversation at any point. Go and visit your son, go on a vacation, read a new book (an uplifting one!), go to church, meet all your neighbors, try some new recipes, etc etc. There is so much to do and so little time - I hope you can find some peace and excitement at the same time. Good luck and god bless!! B. Link to post Share on other sites
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