beingniceguy Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 I am looking for advice on introducing toys into the bedroom. Not just how to bring them in but I also feel torn. She has not asked about using toys and I would like to experiment but don't want to feel threatened. I'm not sure how I will feel. Any advice?
EC Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 I dont understand you want to bring toys into the bedroom or does she??
Merin Posted March 18, 2005 Posted March 18, 2005 Take her and go shopping together at a sex shop.. There isn't any reason to feel threatend.. a vibe is good.. but for real nothing beats the real thing
Author beingniceguy Posted March 19, 2005 Author Posted March 19, 2005 Originally posted by EC I dont understand you want to bring toys into the bedroom or does she?? I want to. I keep hearing that it can add some excitement to the relationship. I guess I'm looking for responses to find out if the toys have ever taken over as the main desire for women. Who can compete with a vibrating 12" dong?
Pendawn Posted March 19, 2005 Posted March 19, 2005 Originally posted by beingniceguy I want to. I keep hearing that it can add some excitement to the relationship. I guess I'm looking for responses to find out if the toys have ever taken over as the main desire for women. Who can compete with a vibrating 12" dong? The reason you have nothing to worry about is the difference between an orgams and making love. A vibrator can make you cum but it can't kiss you and stroke your body, and it doesn't have blood cursing under it's skin, it can't speak words of lust or love, it can't pull your hair nibble your neck or throw you over onto your knees. You are more than a penis, and your girl has sex with you for more than what you put inside her vagina. Just think of the phrase "shooting the messenger" and reverse it. She's gonna LOVE the guy that's holding the vibrator that's making her cum.
Woman Posted March 21, 2005 Posted March 21, 2005 Pendawn, I could never have thought of a better way to say it! You are SOO right!
Author beingniceguy Posted March 23, 2005 Author Posted March 23, 2005 Originally posted by Pendawn The reason you have nothing to worry about is the difference between an orgams and making love. A vibrator can make you cum but it can't kiss you and stroke your body, and it doesn't have blood cursing under it's skin, it can't speak words of lust or love, it can't pull your hair nibble your neck or throw you over onto your knees. You are more than a penis, and your girl has sex with you for more than what you put inside her vagina. Just think of the phrase "shooting the messenger" and reverse it. She's gonna LOVE the guy that's holding the vibrator that's making her cum. Thanks Pendawn. You do have a way with words.....
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