Are there any men who are NOT bitter jaded woman haters "out there?"

[Anela]

Too bad some people don't see it that way. A sign of immaturity

 

Another sign of immaturity is insisting that you're right, and not taking in what the other person is saying, Joystick.

 

I only picked ONE man. The rest, I wasn't involved with. I tend to like healthy men - stable, and kind. That wasn't what I was attracting, so I didn't choose to be with the unhealthy men. I HAD worked on myself, and then my life tanked, and I was worse off than I'd been before. I didn't just sit and rot, and I didn't latch onto any old man to make myself feel better - to feel attractive, and look better to others, since, according to some, having a man (any man), is better than being alone.

[El Oh El]

Yes. Are there any women who are not ignorant, blind, followers of the crowd left?

[joystickd]

Another sign of immaturity is insisting that you're right, and not taking in what the other person is saying, Joystick.

 

I only picked ONE man. The rest, I wasn't involved with. I tend to like healthy men - stable, and kind. That wasn't what I was attracting, so I didn't choose to be with the unhealthy men. I HAD worked on myself, and then my life tanked, and I was worse off than I'd been before. I didn't just sit and rot, and I didn't latch onto any old man to make myself feel better - to feel attractive, and look better to others, since, according to some, having a man (any man), is better than being alone.

I'm taking in what you are saying but I'm not saying the blame is on you. Stop being so dramatic

[ktya]

I mean ,really. Are there?

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/general/general-relationship-discussion/503374-wtf-going-here

 

There's that girlfriend.

 

And the woman who lived with me for 3.5 years didnt clean up after herself and turned into a hoarder

 

The closet gambling addict who asked me for money so often that when i caught her cleaning out my bank account and took the cash back she said "You're not financialy ready for me. You dont love me enough"

 

There's the crazy iranian with BPD who tried to punch me, stab me and steal my rental house

 

There's the Jerry Springer supposedly not married woman who said she was single and on depo-prev who turned out to be pregnant with her husband's kid and was just looking to hook me for child support

 

There's the ex-fiancee who I was with for 9 years who cheated on me I caught her then started doing it again and when I caught her and was going to beat the piss out of the guy left me at 5am in the morning with nothing but a note on the dishwasher while I slept to protect him

 

The highschool sweetheart that I moved out of my hometown to the city with who dumped me so she could move to another province and ball her friend's boyfriend after almost 2 years

 

...

 

So yeah, if your meeting a guy over the age of 30 or 35 who has had a few serious relationships, chances are something went quite wrong and there's a reason he's single and not ready to embrace that women are sugar and spice and everything nice anymore

[carhill]

I think we left bitter and jaded behind and moved into tower shooter territory

 

Seriously, man, respect. Hope a sense of humor about life's imperfections came out of all of that.

 

Myself, I had to unlearn all that 'sugar and spice' crap my parents drilled into me. Took years. I can laugh about it now.

[ktya]

What did they do to end up in divorce court? What about what the husbands did to the wives?

 

You know, apparently womens' shelters call it acceptance of abuse when a woman presents herself with an injury and says it was her husband, and you say "what did you do?"

[ktya]

I think we left bitter and jaded behind and moved into tower shooter territory

 

Seriously, man, respect. Hope a sense of humor about life's imperfections came out of all of that.

 

Tower shooter. I'm getting there. LOL

 

I still enjoy the company of women. Love hanging out with them, having sex with them, joking around with them. But I'm starting to think that once you go "girlfriend" they go from Dr. Jeyll to Mr. Hyde.

[Under The Radar]

Tower shooter. I'm getting there. LOL

 

I still enjoy the company of women. Love hanging out with them, having sex with them, joking around with them. But I'm starting to think that once you go "girlfriend" they go from Dr. Jeyll to Mr. Hyde.

 

They only turn into Mr. Hyde if it's a full moon.

 

Wait ...... I think that's only werewolves.

 

Oh dear, I'm really confused now

 

I'm off to do some research.

[Under The Radar]

You really can't let a few crappy women convince you they are all like that, because they aren't. I have met and dated my share of horrible women also, but I have known quite a few great ones too. They are out there, man.

 

^^^^^THIS^^^^^

 

*UTR gives 2 thumbs up*

[Rejected Rosebud]

So yeah, if your meeting a guy over the age of 30 or 35 who has had a few serious relationships, chances are something went quite wrong and there's a reason he's single and not ready to embrace that women are sugar and spice and everything nice anymore

Kyta, no offense but your experiences are extreme and NOT the norm for anybody, I think you might be a drama seeker yourself!