Lost a friend over a parking spot!!!!!!

[Marie1973]

Hello

I need advice on my friendship with this girl, Kim.

We met at work 2 years ago, & hit it off great.

We became best friends.

 

Well, me her & this other girl went to lunch on Friday.

Kim came in early & got a close parking spot. If u come

in later, u have to walk cause u don't get as close parking spot.

 

Well, I ALWAYS drive to lunch, i don't mind.

However friday i didn't feel like driving so i asked if she would mind

driving. She said "no, but i'll lose my close spot". So the 3 of us

got into her car.

 

OK, this is crazy,,,,,,, we are on the way there & kim won't look at me or

talk to me. She ignored me the whole time at lunch & wouldn't even

look at me.

 

This girl, who supposibly is my best friend got mad at me because

i asked her to drive to lunch & she lost her close parking spot!!!

 

CAN U BELIEVE THIS CRAP!

 

I'm sorry but i'm not going to deal with someone like this, its pathetic.

She has many issues in her life & is seeing a shrink for them.

I am not going to let someone treat me like this over a damn parking

spot. AM I WRONG?

[Illusion24]

NO..I'm the same way...I always drive everywhere which I don't mind cause I like to have control of the situation but sometimes your just tired and would like to be driven...If your friend got mad at you for a parking spot imagine something more serious...People who suffer from depression or whatever she is going to therapy for don't usually find meaning behind their anger...They just simply get mad...They have no control of their feelings and emotions...The simplest things turn into a whole drama...If she's willing to let go of a friendship for a stupid parking space..she wasn't your friend in the first place...or maybe she's just really F*cked Up

[curiousnycgirl]

Totally stupid! No you are not wrong. I would simply ignore the situation - not even remotely address her attitude/ignoring you, etc. and not initiate anything else. In all likelihood she'll walk in Monday like nothing happened, and you can act the same way. If she doesnt' - I'd just give her a very wide berth. You seriously don't need the drama!

[red-rose-in-winter]

Since you always drive your car to lunch, why should it kill her so much to drive just ONCE??? As far as not wanting to give up her "close" parking space, that is just lazy!!! How far do you have to walk anyway if you come in later? Is it just across the parking lot?

 

Some people make everyday small things into HUGE dramas!!! I would just ignore Kim because you did nothing wrong. She'll get over it in a few days.

[Bronzepen]

Childish behavior.

 

Anyone who acts that way shouldn't be called a friend.

 

Find someone who knows the meaning of friendship, not selfishness.

 

Friends come and go.

[tiki]

Just give her some space and maybe she'll come around. Sounds like someone was having a bad day?!

[Marie1973]

Hello

 

If u come in later u have to walk a bit, not far, but a bit more.

I ignored her today & she didn't visit my desk like she usually does &

I hope that she doesn't. I have made a decision that i no longer want

to continue our friendship. I have many friends that are better than her.

I am not going to be treated like **** by a good friend, no way.

Its like our friendship depends on her mood swing that way.

 

Yes she has many problems. She sees a shrink 1 every 2 weeks, it should

be weekly. She has no self esteem what -so-ever. She is depressed about not having a boyfriend for 2 years. She has breast implants that she has to pay $5,000 for & has no money. She has a lot a issues.

 

I was the best friend that anyone could ever have to her & she treats me like that, I don't think so. I want nothing to do with her anymore.

These girls that used to work with us refuse to go to lunch with me if she comes, they say that she's not a good friend. I fought for them to give her another chance & i get this, NO WAY i'm done..