aarsky Posted March 19, 2005 Share Posted March 19, 2005 I am still having trouble dealing with the fact that my ex is pregnant with someone else's child, and I still don't know if I can handle it. She told me she still wanted to be my friend, but I'm still having trouble dealing with it. The guy in question from what I know really played with her emotions and left her to deal with this on her own. Im still trying to figure what it is I should do. I keep tossing the idea back and forth. One minute I say she needs my help, but then I turn around and say why didnt she just come out and tell me all of this from the start. (by that I mean when I asked her if there was ever a chance for us again, she told me she didnt want a man in her life right now (this was in july of last year, as she wanted to focus on her career and her daughter, but then I find out shes been seeing this guy since August or Semptember). Someone please help me. I still feel like I love her, but knowing that she lied, cna I ever trust her again. And all she said was that she chose to keep her life private during the four months leading into the new year. Link to post Share on other sites
HotCaliGirl Posted March 19, 2005 Share Posted March 19, 2005 I'm not too qualified to give feedback on this, but I think her career was an excuse to no longer see you. If she was in love with you, she wouldn't eliminate you from her life. For all you know, she may have been seeing that man during that time too but did not want to tell you or hurt you with that info. Let her know that you care for her and are there if she needs help with anything during her pregnancy. In the meantime, you shouldn't have high hopes of getting back together with her relationship-wise. Or maybe she wanted to have another baby and had you informed her that you did not want to father children? That could be another reason she got together with someone else so soon after she had left you... just some thoughts Link to post Share on other sites
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