xoKimbraxo Posted November 30, 2014 Share Posted November 30, 2014 My neighbor is 20 years old, and I am 22 years old. He is cute, and he's kinda new, he moved in with my neighbor (whom is his girlfriend) so I know not to mess with that. I just keep it friendly, and neighborly. Well he hangs out with my brother a lot, so he is always here. He gets in my personal space and he leans in all the time, and every time I leave he always say "Where you going?" in a weird tone. Last night he said "You look nice, where you going?" in a weird way. He also said my hair looks nice. He acts flirty when he isn't with his girlfriend. He kept talking about my Suicide Silence hoodie, that I wore a week ago lol. Later on in the night, I was talking to his girlfriend about a guy I like, and he said "Is that your boyfriend?" in front of his girlfriend, once again, it was a weird/angry tone. It's not a normal tone of voice how he asks these questions with me. Why does he want to know where I go or who I go out with? What is up with this? Should I be alarmed? Should I let this go? Can you tell me what you think? Is this going to progress somewhere bad? Link to post Share on other sites
evanescentworld Posted November 30, 2014 Share Posted November 30, 2014 Tell him to mind his own business... suggest that as he has his GF, he should focus on making her the happiest girl in the world... you can look after yourself.... Give him the cold shoulder, and discourage him in every way possible. Don't ever finds yourself alone with him. And if he shoots questions at you, ignore them. You don't owe him any response or explanation... He's somewhat immature, you're right to leave well alone.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Haerts Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 Have you thought that you may be getting a wrong impression from him? To me, it sounds no big deal. He's your brother's friend, maybe he's just trying to be social. Regardless, you know he has a girlfriend so while I don't think you should ignore him, you shouldn't create anything that may lead him to think you're flirting with him - in case he's indeed flirting with you. You may be right, but for now he hasn't done anything I would consider suspicious or whatever. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author xoKimbraxo Posted December 1, 2014 Author Share Posted December 1, 2014 Tell him to mind his own business... suggest that as he has his GF, he should focus on making her the happiest girl in the world... you can look after yourself.... Give him the cold shoulder, and discourage him in every way possible. Don't ever finds yourself alone with him. And if he shoots questions at you, ignore them. You don't owe him any response or explanation... He's somewhat immature, you're right to leave well alone.... Yes. I am friends with his girlfriend, with that said he better watch it! I don't know if I should be alarmed or not? TY! xoKimbraxo Link to post Share on other sites
Author xoKimbraxo Posted December 1, 2014 Author Share Posted December 1, 2014 Have you thought that you may be getting a wrong impression from him? To me, it sounds no big deal. He's your brother's friend, maybe he's just trying to be social. Regardless, you know he has a girlfriend so while I don't think you should ignore him, you shouldn't create anything that may lead him to think you're flirting with him - in case he's indeed flirting with you. You may be right, but for now he hasn't done anything I would consider suspicious or whatever. It's a possibility I am getting a wrong impression from him. That is why I posted it on here to see if other people thought I am being ridiculous. I don't want his girlfriend mad at me too because even though he's the one flirting with me, she reminds of the type that'll be mad at me, and I don't need that. He gets in my personal space a lot and leans in on me like he's going to kiss me or something. It's weird. TY! xoKimbraxo Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 xoKimbraxo, He sounds like a right oddball - keep out of his way. Link to post Share on other sites
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