9Lives Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 here I go again another My mm is so wonderful that I am scared of the relationship. He is what I have been saying I wanted in a single man and now here he comes married. It is unbelievable. This guy did not ask for sex and he is very sexy....I was at home dying in sexual desire. He takes me to lunch all the time. He calls me allllllllll the time He comes over whenever I want him to He stays at work late to be with me He goes to the gym with me. He is easy to talk to. He cares about my feelings If I tell him that I want him to do something he does it. He wears my favorite designer Sean John and Fubu We both believe in discipling our kids the same. We feel the same about money. AND DAMMMM HE IS SOOOOOO FINE. Sex is good. Not great. So what do I do........I break up with him. I said to him you are everything I want in a single man. It is like a dream with the expection that he is married. He talks me out of it.And jokes that he is going to tell his momma... He's a momma boy. He says it is okay to fall in love with him. So I get back with him the same day. Get this.... I told him I want to be his wife if he leaves her and guess what.......He did not panic!!! He just laughed. Now get this, I date...and he knows this so he will calll me early in the morning to make sure I am home. It trips me out. Help me. I am soooooo stupid. Link to post Share on other sites
Sad Flower Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 Good, Best thing you could do is let him go, of course they are nice until they want it to end!!! Link to post Share on other sites
lynnered Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 he has a wife he has kids with his wife all this time &energy hes putting into you , does he have any left for his kids? so keep giving him what your giving him,and you'll keep getting what your getting, which I'm a little jealous XMM never had time like that!! your not stupid at all to be honest ,if XMM treated me like yours , id probly have a harder time NC, it sounds like he respects you&in your situation maybe you have the upper hand , just don't let him fiddlef**k around with you, if you want him to leave let him know he needs to start taking the steps, just don't let the situation get out of hand ,where your unhappy ,whens he leaving ,he left me, all that drama . at least your dating ,you sound pretty strong to me far from stupid , goodluck Link to post Share on other sites
MsMree Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 I break up with him. He talks me out of itSo I get back with him the same day For me, my MM always talks me out of it, because i want him to - He could say something like, "It's cloudy and cold today" and my response would be "Oh i love you, too - i miss you". BLAH BLAH BLAH!!! And my situation is the same - he's everything i want but not single. BUT NOT SINGLE. BUT NOT SINGLE. BUT NOT SINGLE. I've been repeating this to myself over and over lately and to my surprise, it is sink'g in and i'm look'g at things in a different manner. I wish you well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author 9Lives Posted March 21, 2005 Author Share Posted March 21, 2005 Originally posted by lynnered he has a wife he has kids with his wife all this time &energy hes putting into you , does he have any left for his kids? He has kids and she has kids...they are not having kids together. Like last night, I got off work at 10pm,,,,He does not know that on Sat from 6-10pm I am at work. I let him think I am out socializing to keep him on his toes. So he calls me while I am at work but I cant take his calls. So he calls about 3 times and I finally answer on the ring because I am now off. So he is like what are you doing,..I say, I am at a Fish Fry and I am having a ball. So he was going out with his friends until I told him I was heading home. So he cancels his plans and sits outside my home for 15 minutes waiting for me to come home. I am like WOW! Then he calls early in the morning to just talk to me. He said she was mad because she had been calling him but he did not answer. Well he left his cell phone in the car. He said he had 10 missed calls. Then he called me all day long. This is so crazy. He is very nice to me. I am so scared. Link to post Share on other sites
Circles Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 I have not been following your story, how long have the two of you been dating? Link to post Share on other sites
Author 9Lives Posted March 21, 2005 Author Share Posted March 21, 2005 just 2 months and we work together. So I see him everyday. He takes me to lunch everyday. He takes me to the gym. He then calls me on the weekend to come over to the house. And then, he coaches basketball on Sunday and wants me to come to those too. Link to post Share on other sites
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