LookAtThisPOst Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 (edited) Saw this recent profile of an early 30's woman (dating range for her goes from the mid 20's to mid 40's...pretty high age range, as I've seen most women in their early 30s won't date many 40-somethings) Anyhow, she's 31, actually said she's on the radio in the mornings at a local small town station (she gave the station name, looked her up and verified she is a legit radio host/DJ) and a project manager/development for the municipality there. Says she has no kids and wants no kids. Surprisingly, no "look how hot I am photos" on her Facebook. Very modest pictures. (She has to, she's a public figure). Of course, this is a dream come true for me as most women in that area at that age are married and have popped out 2 to 3 children. That's just how it is in small towns. Also, an active member of the Rotary Club, now correct me if I'm wrong, I figured that's something most older people would partake in as she's only early 30's. I thought, "Rotary Clubs, people still do those? LOL" Not being stuck up about it, just saying I would sometimes see those signs on the "Welcome to ......" coming into town, but when I start hearing people talk about Kiwanis, Rotary, Masons, etc....they are usually my parents age or older that are into that kind of thing. Just saying most women her age in that town are usually out in their 4 x 4's around a bonfire drinking a lot of beer. lol. From the looks of her, she's very cute, attractive, and professional looking. She looks completely out of her element and surprised a woman like her isn't snatched up in wedlock or at least a boyfriend. Also interesting that she's stuck around that town for as long as she has as well. Most of her class tend to find a larger, more ritzier city to go to right after high school as they tend not to care for the town in which they live. Hard to believe she would even DO online dating. That being said, do you know people like this? Do you feel as if sometimes you're the only "Professional" non-blue collar variety, without kids, looking for love in rural America and if so....are you not only having to go online to find love, but might have to be willing to travel 1 or even 2 hours geographically to find it? That is IF you're willing to travel that far? Edited December 1, 2014 by LookAtThisPOst Link to post Share on other sites
JuneJulySeptember Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 I know a couple of women who are closer to 40 who are quite attractive and never married. It's by choice. But then again, it's kind of a misnomer because I feel like any woman could be with a decent man if she wanted to be. That man might not be physically attractive, but still, the choice is there. Link to post Share on other sites
hotpotato Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 No, of course she doesnt have any look how hot am I photos. Maybe she wants men to like her for reasons other than her body. You are acting surpriesed! Im 27, and some could say im single by choice. I guess I could grab everyday guy. We could get married and make each other very unhappy. Maybe she needs a specific kind of man. On ls one must point out the obvious-not every man and woman will fit together. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LookAtThisPOst Posted December 1, 2014 Author Share Posted December 1, 2014 No, of course she doesnt have any look how hot am I photos. Maybe she wants men to like her for reasons other than her body. You are acting surpriesed! . Actually just saying that's a good thing. Im 27, and some could say im single by choice. I guess I could grab everyday guy. We could get married and make each other very unhappy. Maybe she needs a specific kind of man. On ls one must point out the obvious-not every man and woman will fit together. I'm guessing she's become recently available or new in town. Likely the former. In these smaller towns it's rare to see an attractive and intelligent woman unattached. Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 When I was single, I found it pretty hard to believe I was single. I am a great catch! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 She seems perfectly normal to me. The municipality probably requires a presence in Rotary, which is a great organization btw. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LookAtThisPOst Posted December 1, 2014 Author Share Posted December 1, 2014 Oh okay. That explains that :-) She seems perfectly normal to me. The municipality probably requires a presence in Rotary, which is a great organization btw. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 She just sounds like a woman who is doing things she likes and successful and has a lot of options, none of which she is desperate to take because she's doing fine on her own and isn't wanting a family. She will choose what makes her happy and doesn't limit her. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 Well, I certainly not "professional and ritzy", but I'm a decent girl in a rural area, single now and usually am single. I did OLD because I never got interest from men IRL. maybe she's the same as me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Targetlock Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 I'm guessing she simply hasn't found the right guy yet or that life simply got in the way of it happening for her. Link to post Share on other sites
Targetlock Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 Like anything else in life, if it appears too good to be true, it probably is. Yep sadly this can be true, Ive discovered this on multiple occasions. doesn't mean you should turn down these opportunities though, just don't get your hopes up too much or get too carried away like i have before. Link to post Share on other sites
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