Renee71tx Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 Is there such a thing? A relationship would be nice to have that there was a interset on his part other than sex sex sex. Jonestly wouldnt bother me to have a man who impotent. I am wanting a relationship much more than physical. UGH Link to post Share on other sites
central Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 Sure. What you're looking for is a friend. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
mammasita Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 That would be a friendship. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Renee71tx Posted December 2, 2014 Author Share Posted December 2, 2014 NO....More..... I got plenty of friends..I wouldnt marry one of my friends. Want the sexual attarction and pleasure (differnet ways of pleasing not just one!!) just dont have to worry about a HD walking around all time. That sounds bad but not meaning it too be. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 You just have to find somebody who is sexually compatible with you. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGypsy Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 Be careful what you wish for . You ask for a man without a "HD" where is his motivation and drive to please you sexually? Sounds like you want a woman to me?! As far as I know a man derives most of his pleasure from having his manhood attended to. Yes, there are different ways of doing it , but in the end a man with a healthy libido is going to want to have that area focused on in one way or another. If you're saying that you don't want a man who's selfish in bed? That I get. The sex should be mutually satisfying. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 then date a man who waits till after marriage to have sex.......but if you do reralize that the level of commitment is actually more...and do it in line with the fact you would eventually want to marry him....if you dont want to get married.......then i suggest you look for an outing companion to date.....someone to have outings with and make it specifically clear...you are not after marriage or a sexually intimate relationship........deb Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 (edited) double post.......deb Edited December 2, 2014 by todreaminblue Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 You need someone different, maybe someone a bit older. Almost all guys in late teens and twenties are only thinking about sex at least half the time. A guy slows down some in his 40s and even late 30s. It would be very annoying to have someone around who was only interested in one thing, I agree. I mean, over time it will get old and it's very selfish if they act like the only solution to their horniness is you. Most guys will gladly take care of themselves for daily maintenance and then also have plenty of sex with their woman. Tell him he needs to take care of himself and give him a limit of times a week you are available. You do have a right. But it does sound like a mismatch. One thing I totally never understood about guys is how can they get turned on when the woman doesn't even want to do it, and I think that's a bad sign, frankly, when your not wanting to do it has no effect on them wanting to do it. Like, exactly how disposable do they think you are? Link to post Share on other sites
Rejected Rosebud Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 There are asexual people, if you are one you need to find another! Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Is there such a thing? A relationship would be nice to have that there was a interset on his part other than sex sex sex. Jonestly wouldnt bother me to have a man who impotent. I am wanting a relationship much more than physical. UGH Somewhere The Left Banke are shaking their collective heads with no regrets. Link to post Share on other sites
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