BrotherAaron Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 ...is to not want her back All I know is that us chumps who get dumped spend a lot of time trying to engineer a second chance. Why waste our time? They hurt us. If something is going to work out, they should be asking for second chances. If they're not spending every moment of their waking lives trying to get us to love them, why should we be? Here's to moving on... in spite of the fact that I don't want to. Link to post Share on other sites
sleeplessincnd Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 This is true, usually an ex will come back just when you don't want them anymore. Either way, you win! On the other hand - if someone is worth fighting for then you should do it. Everyone and every situation is different. You can see my post about my situation (So confused, he says he loves me but doesn't want to work things out??) - I thought that no contact and moving on would be the best way to get him back. But after a two hour phone conversation last night I see that he just needed me to say the right things at the right time. If someone broke up with you, chances are they think you did something wrong - make it right! Good for you for moving on, but sometimes you need closure to do that, no contact is a brutal game - and that's what it is, a game of will and to be honest, I think it just creates animosity and if you care about someone leaving them hanging and shutting them out of your life will not make them or you any happier. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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