imtrue Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 I am white, my boyfriend is as well. He constantly (at least once or twice a week) talks about how much he thinks white people are pieces of ***** and scum of the universe. And then goes into his spiel about how unique, different and overall better Asians are, he even has a big back piece and rib tattoo of Asian culture. Tonight he kept going on and on about how much we suck as human beings and I went off and said, "well, why don't you just date an Asian then so you can stop whining." He ignored it and went on cursing all white people. I feel unattractive and hated.. We've been seeing each other for almost 6 months and I'm getting to the point where my self esteem is running dry... He also talks about how much he hates fat people. And I mean really hates them. He talked about one girl he tried to date before me about how she was too fat for him. I met her, she was maybe only 15lbs heavier than me (I'm 125 5'4"). I'm 20 and he's 30, I'm blonde and average weight but overall I know I'm attractive. Shouldn't he be satisfied? Am I just tripping out? I've been really stressed about this lately.. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
almond Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 These kinds of negative, immature rants are very toxic. I'd be walking...I couldn't imagine a future with someone like this. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 He must be very rich or handsome. Why else would you date someone with such a putrid personality? Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Why listen to all of that anger and self-hatred? He clearly has issues, this will only get worse. My advice is to get out now. Link to post Share on other sites
JS84 Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 And you're still with him because......??? Link to post Share on other sites
Clockwork Posted December 4, 2014 Share Posted December 4, 2014 He's white..........he hates white people. But HE'S white as well. The guy sounds a little angry. There are always alarm bells dear, don't ignore them, like this one for example. Link to post Share on other sites
bathtub-row Posted December 4, 2014 Share Posted December 4, 2014 I agree with everyone else. His anger is a big red flag and ignoring those signs will make your life a living hell. Lose this guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Allumere Posted December 4, 2014 Share Posted December 4, 2014 I hate ***holes. Your boyfriend falls into that category. Not sure how that works since he is a white dude but the last thing you need is to be around another racist and someone that sucks away your joy. Run away Link to post Share on other sites
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