xox Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Hello there, Me and my boyfriend of 4 years just broke up last week. The day we broke up I didn't contact him till 4 days after. Of course he wouldn't reply to any of my text messages. I couldn't take it anymore so I decided to just show up at his house (as crazy as I sounds I had to). He was really mad that I was there and said that we had nothing to talk about and that we are not going to get back together. I cried and cried. I asked him to let me hug him one last time and that I would promise to let him go after, and so he did he also hugged me back. We also kissed. I honestly never want to let him go, he is the love of my life, and I feel like there is no other person I would want to be with. We have this one mutual friend and she told me that he texted her after I left and he told her that I had come over and it was just really hard for him and that it was sad. I don't know what he is thinking, because we have broken up and got back together before. Do you think he will miss me? Will he contact me? I don't want to text him as much as I want too I can't because I said I would let him go. I need some advice Link to post Share on other sites
Richiebuoy Posted December 4, 2014 Share Posted December 4, 2014 Stick to your word and let him go, if he wants to come back he will, if he doesn't then surely you dont want to be with someone thats doesn't want you ? ...... good luck and best wishes Link to post Share on other sites
Light Breeze Posted December 4, 2014 Share Posted December 4, 2014 Yes, let him go.. If your meant to be then he would return.. We're kinda in the same boat right now, except she found someone new so I'm trying to kill all hope.. Anyway, If he doesn't come back... Then that's it.. Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, even if it means it doesn't include us.. Just stay strong! Link to post Share on other sites
Jules75 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 I understand how you feel it is hard. Mine gave me no reasons except ridiculous ones and he even told me he still loves me and wants to be with me but we just can't be. That is yuck and it hurts. I just put it to him to look me up if he hanged his mind. My head knows to go but the heart just wants to stay because I too think he is the love of my life. It will get easier I know that but any contact sadly just makes you want more. You sound like a very loyal and loving person fine qualities and someday they will be appreciated. Hang in there. I'm feeling a little better each day but because it's real they will always be in your heart. Just don't let it rule you you deserve happiness no matter what form it takes. The hardest part is not knowing try are taking it is as hard as you are. One day at a time and forgive yourself and love yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Mi7522 Posted December 5, 2014 Share Posted December 5, 2014 We have this one mutual friend and she told me that he texted her after I left and he told her that I had come over and it was just really hard for him and that it was sad. I don't know what he is thinking, because we have broken up and got back together before. Same thing I dealt with, my ex told a mutual friend she was sad about our conversation but ultimately she was only sad because she felt guilty. Move on and find someone that appreciates you. Get stronger and make yourself stronger. You'll thank yourself later trust me Link to post Share on other sites
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