guest Posted March 20, 2005 Posted March 20, 2005 Ok here goes w/ my first post... This past friday I met a nice girl at a party/get together thing she was having at her house (I was invited by a friend)... Well as the night went on I could see she was pretty cool, but I had to leave before I could get to know her more... However I called her the next day (yesterday) and asked if she would go to my High school prom w/ me (we're both seniors at different highschools) and she said yes, but she had to go before we could talk more so we said we'd talk more today.... Well today roles around and I caller her while she was out shopping and after we talked for about 5 mins she had to go b/c of where she was, and she said I should call her when I get more info about prom. However I really want to get to know her more and I want to ask her out, but I'm not really sure what route to take so I came here... What should i do?????
Rogue10186 Posted March 20, 2005 Posted March 20, 2005 Hello all, this is my post, I just forgot to log on when I put it up, so you can address replys to me... thanks
WithOrWithoutYou Posted March 21, 2005 Posted March 21, 2005 Well, she obviously likes you, or she would not have agreed to go to the prom. Find out some more info about the prom, and use it as an excuse to call her up. When you are done talking about that, ask her if she would like to go out next Saturday (or whatever other day is good for you, and which you think would probably be good for her too).
Rogue10186 Posted March 21, 2005 Posted March 21, 2005 Thanks for the advice, unfortunately since prom is still about 5 weeks my school isnt going to give any papers and stuff about it for another week or two, plus since I'm at an all guys school we generally dont talk about what our prom plans are with our friends untill about 2-3 weeks before.... It's just I was hopping to get something going with her a little earlier, like next weekend, b/c we've both got the whole week off for eatser.... either way thanks for the idea... anyone else want to chime in feel free to...
angelj Posted March 21, 2005 Posted March 21, 2005 she told you to call her...even if it was for prom plans...id say give her a little space and make her think. girls at any age, but especially that age like a little bit of a chase and then give her a call up and see if she wants to hang out? meet up again at another party or another get together with friends involved that way it wont be too awkward. be nice but not toooo nice and overbearing, talk to her a little bit more, and see where it goes from there. maybe ask if her she wants to go out some time and see a movie? pay attention to how she reacts and what she says. if she blows you off and says yeah maybe ill call you...dont pressure her too much. let us know what happens! haha prom time always makes me sentimental...i almost wish i could go again
Rogue10186 Posted March 21, 2005 Posted March 21, 2005 Originally posted by angelj she told you to call her...even if it was for prom plans...id say give her a little space and make her think. That's what I kinda figured, but how long should I wait, my sister said I should wait till tommorow and I thought maybe tuesday at the latest...
angelj Posted March 21, 2005 Posted March 21, 2005 wait till tuesday if you can....it probably seems kinda hard but that way u arent bothering her and you certainly arent being over-bearing. i can remember when i was in highschool if a guy came on too strong id get irritated super-quickly..but don't disappear completely. and before i can give you any more advice, you will have to get to know her a little better because this is all too new to overanalyze. she did say to call her when you found out some prom plans, right? so, call her tuesday after school or what not...tell her you probably wont know definate plans for another week or so but slip in that you would like to hang out sometime before then. bring up the idea of a party or something with some other people like i earlier stated and see what she says. oh yeah - does she have your number? and the fact that she gave you hers is pretty good. at least she expects you to call/knows you will so that means at least something. she could have been like uhh give me your number ill get back to you...or something otherwise hinting she wasnt so interested.
Rogue10186 Posted March 21, 2005 Posted March 21, 2005 Originally posted by angelj you will have to get to know her a little better because this is all too new to overanalyze. she did say to call her when you found out some prom plans, right? so, call her tuesday after school or what not...tell her you probably wont know definate plans for another week or so but slip in that you would like to hang out sometime before then. bring up the idea of a party or something with some other people like i earlier stated and see what she says. That was the main reason I tried calling her earlier today, I guess it just wasnt the right time... so I guess I've been sorta on the right track, (it's just been Awhile since I had a girlfriend and I dont want to screw this up...) wish me luck!
angelj Posted March 21, 2005 Posted March 21, 2005 just keep your cool and play it cool....and dont be afraid to play a little with her...not that i agree with game-playing but you get what im saying? you sound like a nice guy. dont worry too much. ive been on here wayy too much today. thats what i get for being lazy with the entire weekend off
SuperFantastico Posted March 22, 2005 Posted March 22, 2005 Well first of all, women like to be busy. Especially when there is important stuff like this to plan for. So i wouldnt get put off because she is difficult to get ahold of. As for how you should ask her out, why not say I think you are pretty cool. How about going to the mall(or insert anouther idea here) on saturday. You gotta be specific enough so she knows you put at least some time and effort into a planned activity. P.S. Im an old timer so maybe 'cool' isnt the bees knees anymore.
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