ibmfreak Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 hi friends,need some advice i have a friend who recently might possibly break out with her because that ****er is using my friend's money for the past three yrs the guy is not spending a single penny and has almost made my friend broke. and its not only money that guy is a biggest liar. now the problem is that i am a guy, my last girlfriend ex now,one of my friends had a crush on her and that the girl started liking me. so i ditched my friend. I DONT WANT TO REPEAT THAT.i am a very carreer oriented guy,dont drink,smoke,no sex or flirting completly clean. i have thinking that girlfriend can take your valuable time.sorry to be the way i am but that is it even i dont like it but alone man walks faster. i kinda like my friend,not love but care for her want to protect her but my carreer is more important. so friends what do you think should i repeat the same mistake or should i stick with my plans.should i tell her that i am not intrested and that we are just good friends just in case she might take my friendship for something else. Link to post Share on other sites
tokyo Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 You should rewrite your post and have someone doublecheck it, because it's really hard to understand. Link to post Share on other sites
Shyboy Posted March 20, 2005 Share Posted March 20, 2005 i agree with kooky Link to post Share on other sites
Author ibmfreak Posted March 20, 2005 Author Share Posted March 20, 2005 ok, here it goes again i had a exgirlfriend she was my friend's crush but the girl started liking me. i am a career oriented guy and i believe in alone man walks faster. i have a friend a girl again whose gonna a breakoff with his boyfriend after i came in life though i am not the reason behind the breakoff. the guy is cheating using all her money. i like her care for her protect her but dont love her i dont know i really dont kow because if there is then my carreer is more important and again i will do the same thing sacrifice which comes in my way. i am emotional. i have so much to say but... i hope this is simple to understand Link to post Share on other sites
WithOrWithoutYou Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 Well, I still don't get 100% of what you are saying, but I'll give it a try. From what I can tell, you have a female friend who is breaking up with her BF (this breakup is not because of you), and you think she is interested in you. You are not interested in her, "in that way", because you beleive that being alone is good for your career. This is also why you don't drink, smoke, flirt, and abstain from sex (doesn't sound like a terribly fun life, btw, especially the no sex part, and I don't see how having a good dating and sex life will interfere too much with your career - but anyway, everybody has to do their own thing ). So you are concerned that you do not want to lead on your female friend, and do not want to make her believe that you want more than a friendship. Seems pretty clear that if you are not interested in her, you should just keep being a friend, and take steps to ensure that she does not get the wrong idea (such as not buying her red roses, not calling it a "date" when you go out, splitting the check, not sleeping with her - you know, just basic stuff like that). Did I miss something, or was that your question? Link to post Share on other sites
Shyboy Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 Originally posted by ibmfreak i believe in alone man walks faster. You mean you will never go out with a girl, get a gf or ever get married?...... wow.....im not sure if thats a good decision.... Well.....how you know she likes you?.....if she told you that, you should just tell her the true....that you consider her only as a good friend Link to post Share on other sites
Author ibmfreak Posted March 21, 2005 Author Share Posted March 21, 2005 friends i know i have a boring life without any girlfriends but girls think that i am smart handsome i have a great physique they wish i could be their boyfriend if they didnot have their existing boyfriend as for sex i think i will wait for the right girl i am very sure about that and that she wouldbe the only one to marry me. Link to post Share on other sites
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