SusiePie Posted December 13, 2014 Share Posted December 13, 2014 (edited) I would be truthful at this point. Originally I felt too much loyalty to MM. I would admit to the affair but would have held back all details probably at first. My question though is: do you volunteer endless info or just answer BS's questions? Plus I know cheating things that don't involve me that MM shared with me and things I found Internet snooping (he is bad at keeping DL online). Edited December 13, 2014 by SusiePie Link to post Share on other sites
solostand Posted December 13, 2014 Share Posted December 13, 2014 I have had two affairs. In the first one, which was six months long, my exhusband found out about it and called my APs wife. His wife called me immediatly and started screaming "Are you having an affair with my husband?" I said "yes". Then I could hear hell breaking loose in the background. It was only after he tried to throw me under the bus that I later gave her every last detail - including a previous affair he had had. They tried to reconcile but two and a half years later, they have split up. Oddly I ran into him today at the grocery check out. We were pleasant to each other. Link to post Share on other sites
Lemon Drop Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 No, I would not. I learned a long time ago that telling other people's truths is none of my business and only hurts people unnecessarily. It is HIS story to tell and that is is probably bold faced lying to us both is for her to find out from him, not me. I don't owe anyone my life story, she can hear it from him. No telling what telling her my truths will come back and dig my grave even deeper. Link to post Share on other sites
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