Blackout23 Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 sorry guys for keep on posting new posts.... just found out 1 hr ago that my ex is already calling some guy her 'new boyfriend' already wow... just wow...i feel so numb...i dont even know what is going on...only been 2 weeks we stopped talking and just wow.. already.. damn.. Link to post Share on other sites
snilljente Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 This happened to me once...I think that there are just some people who CAN'T be alone because of their insecurity...don't take it as something bad about you...take it as her not being strong enough to stand on her own two feet and constantly needing a guy to define her......hang in there Link to post Share on other sites
Donut Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 Yup, it's not a reflection on you at all, I agree with snilljente. Link to post Share on other sites
Illusion24 Posted March 21, 2005 Share Posted March 21, 2005 I was in a relationship for 2 years and I would say the last 4 months all I can think about is.."How do I break-up with him, I don't love him anymore, he makes me feel horrible about myself, I need to get out"!!! I told myself this over and over again until I finally left him...and when I did I felt like all the walls around me just disappeared...It was the best feeling to get out of a relationship that brought me down instead of up... I'm not saying she feels this way but maybe she was unhappy for a while and didn't know how to break it to you...No break-up is understandable it's just something that happens and we have to learn how to deal with it...Just realize maybe the love wasn't their anymore on her part and now she may have found someone who has something she was seeking...What you need to do is move on and look the other way...You might find someone yourself...The hardest part of moving on is not looking back! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blackout23 Posted March 21, 2005 Author Share Posted March 21, 2005 I think you are right on the last 4 months of our relationship... the signs were there she actually even brought it up to me... but I thought it was nothing and didn't think much into it... damn, only if i acted accordingly and I would of saved our relationship... like after our breakup i tried everything to show her I changed and prove to her...but nothing i did got her to give me that 2nd chance... so I guess you are right the love was prolly gone by then... but what I dont really understand how can you find somebody so fast??? we were in a 5 year relationship! I feel so betrayed...I gave up everything to be with her... I gave her everything...I was there on the spot...always picked her up ....did everything... i was a good boyfriend... but she said i treated her emotional bad.. and i didn't addressed it fast enough... but I guess its better now then when we are married and then living together then she walks out because that would of been worst... Link to post Share on other sites
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