NateGrey Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 When I brought up that it's been going on for almost four weeks and he should have been able to find another car by now she got all defensive. I had to listen to her go on about how he is trying but he doesn't have a lot of money because he is paying support for four kids Her getting defensive over this should of already sent off a massive red alert for you. Tell her to have the guy get a ride to work from a dude or a single female co-worker. Link to post Share on other sites
TrustedthenBusted Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 Her getting defensive over this should of already sent off a massive red alert for you. Tell her to have the guy get a ride to work from a dude or a single female co-worker. Yep. BWOOOOOOP! BWOOOOOOP! BWOOOOOOP! ( that is the bull**** detector going off ) When they get all defensive like that, they are taking their OMs side and feelings into consideration and not yours. Once you catch her, she'll be sure to tell you what a loser he is, but right now, he's just a super honorable hard working father of 4 blah blah blah... 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Donate Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 Probably what you don't want to admit is the truth....is indeed true. Yes she is cheating....end of story. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
petee Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 Seems like this one shot wonder has gone, mods please close the thread. Link to post Share on other sites
NJ123 Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 Seems like this one shot wonder has gone, mods please close the thread. Why? It's only been 2 days. He'll likely be back to give an update. Might have a lot going on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jackslife Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 Seems like this one shot wonder has gone, mods please close the thread. Give the guy a break. He didn't start this thread to entertain you. Discovering the affair, var's and all that is the easy part. The decisions over what to do next are the tough bits, and when the serious **** is going down the last thing he'll want to do is give updates to strangers who are just going to shout 'divorce her!' At him. Link to post Share on other sites
petee Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 Jackslife, get over yourself already. The general trend is people vent, they take advice and disappear again. Check my posts before you fire inane comments at me hey? Link to post Share on other sites
NateGrey Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 Jackslife, get over yourself already. The general trend is people vent, they take advice and disappear again. Check my posts before you fire inane comments at me hey? But nothing you just said guarantee's this is an instance of someone venting and disappearing. So, why would it hurt to leave it open a few more days? Not like it's going to crash the servers of Loveshack. Personally I would only close threads if the OP flat out asks..or if it has to be closed because people behave badly. I would not do so simply because the OP has not responded. I'd feel weird asking the mods to close a thread that isn't my own. Especially since it is entirely possible leaving the topic open might help others going through similar things..sometimes people don't want to post their situation even if they know it is anonymous. So I don't know, I don't see the harm in leaving topics open. I've yet to see a thread that literally had people continuing to reply to it even though the OP has been gone for many months or something. Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted December 24, 2014 Share Posted December 24, 2014 You're not going to tell us if you placed the recorder and found any new info? Come on, you won't get kicked out if you give info/updates. Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted December 25, 2014 Share Posted December 25, 2014 Not going to make anymore comments on this post every time I write something I get kicked out of here I don't follow, why would you get kicked out for writing something? Link to post Share on other sites
Clay Posted December 25, 2014 Share Posted December 25, 2014 Its probably a problem with your browser settings. Should be able to ask support. Clay Link to post Share on other sites
thummper Posted December 25, 2014 Share Posted December 25, 2014 Huh?! I've never seen anyone kicked out for posting. Some have been given "banned" status for some outrageous statements, but kicked out?... uh uh. Link to post Share on other sites
beach Posted December 25, 2014 Share Posted December 25, 2014 There's no way to help when you don't give any new info. Link to post Share on other sites
Robert Posted December 25, 2014 Share Posted December 25, 2014 I was kicked twice for this post OP, please check your browser settings. Moderation has only given points on posting your personal email address (which was edited). Moderation has not kicked you out of LS so please continue posting and stay within Community Guidelines. Thanks and Happy Holidays. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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