Krish_me Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 (edited) My 2 years girlfriend cheated on me multiple times with several men. From past 3 months she started acting weirdly and started to blame everything on me. She wanted to breakup with me but we got back again. I still had suspension about her behaviour so I decided to check her mobile and emails, I manage to get access to her phone 15 minutes when she forgot to take mobile with her for shower. I checked Whats up and I saw she is chatting with 15 men, she sent naked pictures of her including face, and her sexual pictures with other men, and lot more pictures I never dreamt off in my life. When I confronted her she said ‘she never met those men it just online sex chat’ but she met only one person and had sex only with that person. She told she had an account in adult dating website and she want men to desire and men to feel her and admire her. She told she love to get naked in front of men and she gets excited when men gets horny by her naked. It broke me into pieces and it hurt me so deeply, last 2 days I hardly slept all I can see is her pictures in my head. She is not even guilty of this act. When I discussed with my mates, one of them suspected she sounded like escort, so I decided to investigate it and I found out she is part-time escort too . I ended the relationship with her, but don’t know how to ease my pain and don’t know how to move on. Words that she used to describe herself and encounter with other men is haunting me and I can’t even sleep. I feel guilty for wasting my 2 years on her and being in relationship with her Edited December 9, 2014 by Krish_me Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 I'm sorry this happened to you. Right now, you need to get yourself checked for STDs. That is very important if she was an escort. At least you found out now & you know you can trust your own instincts. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 Time is a big factor here, some people need a few months to get over that. 2 years is a long time, but consider it a lesson for you to trust your gut - or else you would have wasted another 2 years with her. Sounds like she's a born prostitute from your description though... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Georgia2014 Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 I'm sorry this happened to you. Right now, you need to get yourself checked for STDs. That is very important if she was an escort. At least you found out now & you know you can trust your own instincts. I agree you should get checked for STDs. At least you found out now before wasting any more time on her. With the next girl I suggest you listen to your gut. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 Sorry dude. Sounds like you got played. I agree about going to get checked out by a doctor just to be safe and then heal from this and move on. You don't need this kind of girl in your life. She put your health and life at risk. Kick her ass to the curb. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Smartwithsparks Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 Im Sorry That Happened To Yiu 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SmartDude Posted December 16, 2014 Share Posted December 16, 2014 Yea, I have had sex workers tell me how hard it is to maintain a normal relationship. Some try to hide their work from the BF, others are out in the open to potential partners ,and some just don't even attempt having boyfriends while they are "working" for a few years. If she was escortin and not saying anything about it and just getting her thrills from the secrecy of it all...THATS BAD NEWS. On the other hand if she just felt like she had to hide it, I can sympathize:cool: Link to post Share on other sites
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