browneyes22 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 This question is to all ladies between 18-20. Would you date someone in their late 20's? I mean, if you were attracted to him and got along with him on some level. Or is the age gap just too much? In other words, are you attracted to older guys, or guys more towards your age? Link to post Share on other sites
d'Arthez Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 I am not a girl, but why this strange question? I mean, if you were attracted to him and got along with him on some level. Or is the age gap just too much? get along on some level is highly vague. I get along with the manager on some level too ... Link to post Share on other sites
bluetuesday Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 i'm not 18 to 20. but when i was i was attracted to guys who were snapper dressers and good dancers. they were mostly older. at 22 i started dating a guy 10 years older and was with him for 6 years. i was attracted to him and we got along on many more levels than i did with guys my own age. put away the calculator. judge by maturity, life experience and genuine compatibility. [sweeping generalisation] also older men are better in bed. oh yes they are. until you get to a certain age and younger men are suddenly better. [/sweeping generalisation] go figure. Link to post Share on other sites
sweetness69 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 im not in your age range but im 21 and my dude is 31 and its a good relationship, sometimes he says im childish but overall its working out,and yes the sex is damn good he has much experience.. Link to post Share on other sites
HeartSprinkles Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 When I was 19 I started dating a guy who was 26...it lasted 2.5 years, and I was always a lot more mature than him.... Link to post Share on other sites
Naive Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 Originally posted by browneyes22 This question is to all ladies between 18-20. Would you date someone in their late 20's? I mean, if you were attracted to him and got along with him on some level. Or is the age gap just too much? In other words, are you attracted to older guys, or guys more towards your age? Well I am 21 but I would definitely date someone who is in his late 20's, no biggie. The moes anyone has been my senior is 5 years though. Link to post Share on other sites
simplybrill Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 I think it has a lot to do with maturity level, where the person is in life, and how they treat you. Im 21, and I would date someone who was older, but not past the late 20's. I've been told im very mature for my age, so I'm into older guys anyways. This is not to generalize, Im fully aware there are guys who are older, and not mature at all. I've tried dating guys who were my age, and they're just not right for me. To answer the post: I guess it would depend on the person in question. Link to post Share on other sites
mehim Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 i am 20 and I'm attracted to guys who are older, i dont like young guys so much, but i still date them, never younger than me, but to answer ur quesiton ya i would love to date a guy who's older than me, not too old though, not passed 28 or 29. thats just me though. Link to post Share on other sites
CurlyIam Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 Ten years span is a bit much, IMHO? I've dated guys 4 years older that me, usually. When I was 16 I dated a guy 6 years older. My dad liked him more than I did, LOL. I dumped him over 6 months. Link to post Share on other sites
nat1838 Posted April 5, 2005 Share Posted April 5, 2005 I am actually 24, but the guy I am after is 39. I personally see nothing wrong with the 15 year age difference. I am looking for a guy who is mature, and that is almost impossible to find in a guy within 10 years of me, now that is just my preference. I know many very happily married couples who have 10 or more years age difference. I guess when it all comes down to it, its all just maturity levels. Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted April 6, 2005 Share Posted April 6, 2005 Women mature faster than men so they usually like older men because men their own age seem immature. I see nothing wrong with up to a 5-7 year difference for men your age. I think that over that is not healthy because of the experience level of the older one. You would be venerable because he has experienced life and people so much more than you. If you were 25 then I would see no problem dating men 35 or so but between 18-20 I think you need to stick with someone closer to your age or you could get swept up in the relationship and not know how to handle it. Love is a very powerful emotion and young hearts need to be protected from some who would use and abuse it. Just my thoughts.... Link to post Share on other sites
Fuzzy Chickens Posted April 6, 2005 Share Posted April 6, 2005 This works out perfectly, as guys tend to dig much younger chicks. See, everybody wins! Link to post Share on other sites
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