lostangel39 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 well i finally spoke to my ex he told me that he did miss me and told me he loved me from the day he met me but he also said he wanted me to leave him alone im confused then he said we could go out to eat and talk on the phone but that he didnt want to work things out now im confused he ended the conversation saying he really loved me i told him i loved him and wanted to win his heart again he said (will see) what should i do? we have been together for 7 months and lived together for 2 months im trying to understand him but he always leaves me confused! please help me understand what this man wants should i just leave him alone? i really love him Link to post Share on other sites
upsetnhurt Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 I am having a hard time understanding what you are asking....is that one long sentence or should there be some punctuation? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lostangel39 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 sorry about the punctuation, my question was does he love me if he said this to me or should i just move on.... Link to post Share on other sites
upsetnhurt Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 lost angel, How does one say that he loves you when he asked for you to give him space in order to determine if he wants to be with you? Is that love to you? I think not............show him that you have the willpower to do with him or without him and give him his space.......you deserve better! Ironically he just might come back to you and want you yet I assure you if you take the time to realize what is out there for you that you will be quite a different and better person later on. You just might not want him at that point. Short answer to your question..........you and he do know have the same definition of love........he does not love you the way you want him too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lostangel39 Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 thankyou i believe your right! i deserve better than that and he wants to keep me confused, a friend told me today that he is a control freak and this is one of his ways of controlling me its almost like he wants to punish me, well i have decided to move on im tired of feeling hurt and confused all the time with him im sure this is why his wife left him after 12 years for someone she met online and now his ex and new found love seem very happy! my ex cannot cope with that and instead of treating me good he treats me badly today seemed like my wake up call i have smelled the coffee and can now move on, thankyou for your advice!! yours truly...angel Link to post Share on other sites
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