cmack90 Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 I am a 23 year old male with a good head on my shoulders looking to start my career. I've been to college and am currently working PT until I can finish up some training I need in order to fulfill my dream job. There is a 37 year old woman I work with who is really hot for me and I find her pretty damn attractive. I found out that she enjoys skeet shooting and she invited me to her farm to "shoot". She told me that she is separated and will be divorced soon. She gave me her number last Saturday without me even asking and she keeps dropping hints about us "hanging out". She even offered to take me to an NFL game to watch my favorite team play. On top of that, she saved me a seat at our company Christmas party and brought her son to work one day to meet me. Oh yea, she has two kids. (10 and 14). This woman is close friends with a lot of men who already work I'm the field that I am looking to enter. I have not contacted her yet. I want to but feel like us beginning to text/talk on phone/hangout could potentially backfire big time. Should I run, or am I overreating? Link to post Share on other sites
Clay Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 I would not go out with a woman shooting that is still married You might find out the hard way the husband is still in the picture. Its just better to have a clean relationship than one built on doubts. Link to post Share on other sites
CALOVELY Posted December 17, 2014 Share Posted December 17, 2014 RUN! She is still married and your co-worker. Literally nothing good will come of this. Nothing. Link to post Share on other sites
Javelin Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 she is separated and will be divorced soon At the moment, I wouldn't touch her. However, when she is legally divorced, with no ex-husband in sight - go for it. Link to post Share on other sites
lolablue17 Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 What are your expectations? If you want to have a good time, have a friend with benefits, Why not? I wouldn't pay too much attention to the fact that she's not divorced yet. Unless she is dishonest but eventually every girl can be dishonest with anything. But if you fall in love with her, than you might bump into some difficulties along the way. It doesn't mean it cannot work, it just make things more complicated. Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 You have no proof of her real relationship status and she's already infamous for plenty of activities with the other gender. Unless you want to catch a STD I don't really see the point of making your hands dirty. Link to post Share on other sites
Javelin Posted December 18, 2014 Share Posted December 18, 2014 If you want to have a good time, have a friend with benefits, Why not? Lol, why not? Ask yourself this question, "do I really want to be in a situation where the husband comes home drunk and catches me bangin' his wife?" Link to post Share on other sites
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