Mjfru Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 OK so there's this girl that I have a huge crush on. I had given her a flower for V.day and asked her out, but she's very busy and couldn't really date anyone. So I tried to wait till she wasn't as busy, and ask her out again, but for some reason she was still busy. So I just figured I'd ask her how she really felt about "us" being a couple. I asked her that on Friday, and she said that she likes being friends, but because she's so busy it's hard for her to be in a relationship. Well since then things have been a little odd. On Monday she wore a mini-skirt to class and was all flirtatious to me (I'm in college just for reference). Yesterday she came to the lunchroom, which she NEVER does, just so she could eat lunch with me. Then today she came to the lunchroom again to find me, and afterwards we hung out for a little and she flirted with me a whole lot. Some of my friends think that she has a thing for me, but before the situation was too tense. I have no clue what to think. I really would love to date her, but she's really confusing me telling me that she likes being just friends, and now she's flirting with me constantly. I would love some comments on the situation, that would be greatly appreciated, especially comments from girls considering do girls do these things to guys? I don't know . . . . maybe she's just playing hard to get . . . . . a lot of my friends think that. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 I think she likes the attention but isn't interested enough in you to want to date you. If she really wanted you she wouldn't be "busy" all the time. Everybody is "busy" but we prioritize what we end up actually doing. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperFantastico Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 see above. Some people love the attention of someone liking them. be 'aloof' as they say and see how she reacts. Time for you to play hard to get. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mjfru Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 Yeah I suppose I could try playing hard to get too . . . . I know that she could've made time for me before hand, but she was REALLY busy, I guess I didn't phrase my words too well before. She is REALLY busy, but I'd ask her a specific day and she'd like whip out this planner thingy and see that that day was booked or something, then she'd ask me if the next day was good, but I was busy then. So it was pretty difficult. But yeah if I just start playing hard to get now, maybe something good will happen, I guess I'll just have to have patience. Link to post Share on other sites
SuperFantastico Posted March 23, 2005 Share Posted March 23, 2005 dont wait for her too long. sit on it for a few months if she still dosnt have time for you, look elsewhere. Nothing worse than being last on a persons list of things to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mjfru Posted March 23, 2005 Author Share Posted March 23, 2005 Well the thing is that I really don't have a few months, we are both transferring to different colleges at the end of this semester (which is in May). Although we live near each other (we are day students), all summer she goes to a music camp thing. See this is where she gets busy, she plays a ton of violin and she travels the country doing shows and stuff. So I really don't have too long, I want to date her and be with her as much as possible, but at the same time I don't want to rush it . . . . Link to post Share on other sites
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