lovingone Posted December 21, 2014 Share Posted December 21, 2014 Just out of curiosity I would like to know what others would have done in this situation I am in... Nearly 10 years ago I got a wedding invitation from a neighbor and I was taken aback because to my knowledge I hadn't spoken to this woman in at least 5 years. There was no hard feeling behind it, we just grew apart. The thing about it is that because she wasn't in contact with me,she obviously didn't know that I was experiencing sever medical problems at the time and also trying to keep my job. So I was just so ticked I just tossed the invite aside and figured that if she had a problem with my not responding she would call. And my parents who I live with attended the wedding anyways. But I have now been periodically harrassed for about 10 years by person or persons unknown to me and my car was broken into this week. And the only scenario I can come up with is friends of this lady who were staying at her house and could observe my schedule and were perhaps ticked off at what I did. But I can't prove it yet and the neighbor moved 10 years ago shortly after marrying. Being harrassed 5 times in 10 years doesn't seem like much and I don't live alone. But it is the roller coaster of continually getting on with my life, and then BOOM one day someones kicking my garage door when I am trying to sleep. I don't even have enough evidence to take to the police. I don't regret my action really. I mean what the hell are you supposed to do when someone blindsides you with an invitation and you haven't spoken to them in half a decade and you are struggling with illness at the same time? Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingone Posted December 21, 2014 Author Share Posted December 21, 2014 Just out of curiosity I would like to know what others would have done in this situation I am in... Nearly 10 years ago I got a wedding invitation from a neighbor and I was taken aback because to my knowledge I hadn't spoken to this woman in at least 5 years. There was no hard feeling behind it, we just grew apart. The thing about it is that because she wasn't in contact with me,she obviously didn't know that I was experiencing sever medical problems at the time and also trying to keep my job. So I was just so ticked I just tossed the invite aside and figured that if she had a problem with my not responding she would call. And my parents who I live with attended the wedding anyways. But I have now been periodically harrassed for about 10 years by person or persons unknown to me and my car was broken into this week. And the only scenario I can come up with is friends of this lady who were staying at her house and could observe my schedule and were perhaps ticked off at what I did. But I can't prove it yet and the neighbor moved 10 years ago shortly after marrying. Being harrassed 5 times in 10 years doesn't seem like much and I don't live alone. But it is the roller coaster of continually getting on with my life, and then BOOM one day someones kicking my garage door when I am trying to sleep. I don't even have enough evidence to take to the police. I don't regret my action really. I mean what the hell are you supposed to do when someone blindsides you with an invitation and you haven't spoken to them in half a decade and you are struggling with illness at the same time? I forgot to say I put this post in this section because I am about to go to therapy over this issue. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingone Posted December 21, 2014 Author Share Posted December 21, 2014 Was I wrong for ignoring the invitation in light of the fact I hadn't talked to this woman in years and was struggling with medical problems at the time? My car being broken into this week was the last straw. I really feel violated. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovingone Posted December 22, 2014 Author Share Posted December 22, 2014 Enjoy feeling safe in your homes. Happy Holidays Link to post Share on other sites
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