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and now all old memories came rushing back,why is it to difficult to move ahead ,why am I so taken by her ,she was my fiancee and we had history but it's very difficult to move on specially when I really want to find another woman to date. I am a sweet guy and I thought woman would want that.

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Are you still friends with her on Facebook? If so unfriend her asap!

 

You will never get over her if you keep her around. Even if you think you're super self-disciplined, there just has to pop up a stupid notification about her (just a like even) and you run the risk of falling back, visiting her profile again.

 

Do yourself a favor and unfriend her. This way you won't fall back to missing her again and you can focus on other activities and girs.

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Are you still friends with her on Facebook? If so unfriend her asap!

 

You will never get over her if you keep her around. Even if you think you're super self-disciplined, there just has to pop up a stupid notification about her (just a like even) and you run the risk of falling back, visiting her profile again.

 

Do yourself a favor and unfriend her. This way you won't fall back to missing her again and you can focus on other activities and girs.

 

we're not friends at all just randomly ran into her profile on a search,I guess our emails address had filter her out

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You randomly ran into her on search, and 'accidentally' clicked on her profile?

 

Really?

 

I mean - REALLY??

 

Of course you did......:rolleyes:

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You randomly ran into her on search, and 'accidentally' clicked on her profile?

 

Really?

 

I mean - REALLY??

 

Of course you did......:rolleyes:

 

you know how there's a suggestion on people you may know ? well she appeared and I couldn't help but click my trigger finger was itchy

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you know how there's a suggestion on people you may know ? well she appeared and I couldn't help but click my trigger finger was itchy

 

Yeah the itchy finger, that's the worst enemy, I know that :laugh:

 

Well, if that's the case (and I know facebook does that) then maybe block her. Sounds kinda harsh or difficult to do, but facebook has definitely make getting over one's ex more difficult lol

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Yeah the itchy finger, that's the worst enemy, I know that :laugh:

 

Well, if that's the case (and I know facebook does that) then maybe block her. Sounds kinda harsh or difficult to do, but facebook has definitely make getting over one's ex more difficult lol

 

yes I blocked her,she has two profiles so this 2nd one went unblocked for however long she's been having it ,but both are now banned and block. Hope the heart can grow stronger and move on

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you know how there's a suggestion on people you may know ? well she appeared and I couldn't help but click my trigger finger was itchy

So admit it. It was no accident.

You were curious and it came back and bit you on the ass.

See what checking up on people does? Sets you back.

I don't know how many times that has to be pointed out, but you just broke No Contact, and that's what happens when you do.

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and now all old memories came rushing back,why is it to difficult to move ahead ,why am I so taken by her ,she was my fiancee and we had history but it's very difficult to move on specially when I really want to find another woman to date. I am a sweet guy and I thought woman would want that.

 

FYI, women want more than just a sweet guy.

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money,a well fit man ,yeah I got those bases covered too :confused:

 

Not still being hung up on your ex is an important one too.

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Not still being hung up on your ex is an important one too.

 

QFT

 

I tried dating a guy for a short while last year, very casually, and it went downhill very fast. He was still obsessed with his ex, and I think it just spilled over into every interaction we ever had with each other. He somehow worked her into the conversation almost every time we hung out, frequently compared the two of us (his ex and myself), etc. If I did anything that was in any way similar to her it was like he got "triggered" and would get super bent out of shape and passive-aggressive, and if I did something the opposite of what she would have done/said he had to let me know about it, usually rambling about how I was superior (I wasn't, I was just different) as though he was having some kind of mini meltdown and trying to convince himself that he was glad he was dating someone else and not with her anymore. It was flippin weird and I finally just stopped responding to him at all anymore after the creepiness factor climbed high enough.

 

But our interactions didn't start out that way. He never mentioned her at all the first few times we hung out. It was like he had just pretend-buried it and then the moment it looked like he might get a new girlfriend, **** just hit the fan in his brain.

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