Tracey123 Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 My b/f and I get back together after being apart for almost 2 months...we talked throughout the entire time of the split up and then he said to me 2 weeks ago, "I really miss you....do you miss me? I really want to work things out.I can't imagine spending my life without you...would you be willing to get together with me tonight and talk things out?" I had wanted to hear those words for so long!!!! We got together that night and talked until 3:30 in the morning about the things that have driven us apart and he would say, "Tracey, I'm here because I love you and I want to work things out, OK?" Ok.......ok.ok. (lol) I love this man with my whole heart but I am soooooo damn insecure!!! One of the issues that bother me in the relationship is that we don't talk every day. I know it sounds stupid, but it bothers the crap out of me. We have been together for about 2 1/2 years, maybe 3, (it's hard to tell because we were friends for 15 years so we kind of 'fell into it') Anyway, I don't know if this is a common thing for anyone else out there, but it sure bugs me. I told him when we were getting back together that sometimes, I question whether I'm in a relationship or single because I feel disconnected from him if 2-3 days pass and we don't have a good conversation etc. Am i nuts or what???? We are talking about buying a home together and I don't question his fidelity or anything like that, but he is soooo independent that it drives me nuts sometimes. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
haywood Posted March 24, 2005 Share Posted March 24, 2005 you need to tell him that you want to talk to him everyday. guys won't pick up on these things. we're not mind readers. if you don't tell him your problems he will go on thinking that everything is fine. tell him before it builds up inside. men are simple creatures. just tell him and he'll do something about it. if not then you should be thinking if this is what you really want. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
clynn Posted March 28, 2005 Share Posted March 28, 2005 ...and if you are talkign about buying a home together then I suppose that means living together too? ....Well, in that case, he may also be clinging to his final vestiges of independence. ...Not so awful, really. ..I mean, pretty soon you'll have every day and night any how!!! Enjoy the time right now. Link to post Share on other sites
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