mixed signals from ex gf

[Simon Phoenix]

Today she told me she had to start on anti depressive medicine after the break up. It crushed her that me and her did not work out.

 

She also said she was not ready for a boyfriend. She fears getting heartbroken again. But hopes she will get to the point where she can commit to someone again soon.

 

Dude, you need to stop communicating with her.

[AnOldshoe]

Oh no!!!!

 

I have been watching this video series by a guy called corey wayne.

 

And everything he says that will ruin your chances of getting back with your ex you have done.

 

I recommend you watch all his YouTube videos before you stuff it up anymore

 

 

He's a bit of a d-bag but he seems to get good results

[lovehe]

Update: few days ago i finaly told her that being friends only was something im not comfortable with. That we are better off going our seperate ways since we want different things from eachother. That she had given me signals, but there was nothing to it or i had read them wrong.

 

I wanted it to be civilized and giving us some kind of closure.. but all i got back was "i will make it easy for you" and a block from facebook.

[kenmore]

Update: few days ago i finaly told her that being friends only was something im not comfortable with. That we are better off going our seperate ways since we want different things from eachother. That she had given me signals, but there was nothing to it or i had read them wrong.

 

I wanted it to be civilized and giving us some kind of closure.. but all i got back was "i will make it easy for you" and a block from facebook.

 

The facebook block is a blessing. Don't ever try to circumvent it. Anything there is poison.

 

You said you wanted to go separate ways and she made it easy. Stick to what you said. Don't talk to her.

 

As difficult as this is to realize, there is no such thing as closure. Nothing that can be said will make anything better. I went through this when my first wife died and people on the widow site were saying closure would have made things better. Huh? How so? They are still gone, is saying "goodbye" really going to help?

 

In the case of my deceased wife, saying goodbye would have been that much more pain, not helpful in any way.

 

Same here. Nothing will help the pain and knowing anything you don't know won't help either. Just do what you feel you must and have no regrets.

 

I hope you find some peace.

 

Ken

[lovehe]

The facebook block is a blessing. Don't ever try to circumvent it. Anything there is poison.

 

You said you wanted to go separate ways and she made it easy. Stick to what you said. Don't talk to her.

 

As difficult as this is to realize, there is no such thing as closure. Nothing that can be said will make anything better. I went through this when my first wife died and people on the widow site were saying closure would have made things better. Huh? How so? They are still gone, is saying "goodbye" really going to help?

 

In the case of my deceased wife, saying goodbye would have been that much more pain, not helpful in any way.

 

Same here. Nothing will help the pain and knowing anything you don't know won't help either. Just do what you feel you must and have no regrets.

 

I hope you find some peace.

 

Ken

 

I will find peace Not so heartbroken..more dissapointet with her trying to pursue a friendship with me knowing i was not up for that. Strange feeling when you realize it will never happen.. hurt but relieved.